I was wondering if it's mean to keep my cat out of my bedroom at night? Like I put him in the other room and shut my door he meows at the door for a while but usually gives up eventually I feel so bad. The reason I do this is he is a big cat and for some reason in the middle of the night he likes to stand right on top of my belly (which doesn't feel good considering I'm 9 months pregnant) I try to shew him away but he insists on that spot. And he occasionally climbs on top of the basinette that is right next to my bed and I don't want him to make a habit out of that for when the baby gets here. I know I asked for opinions but any tips would also be very helpful, I hate making my kitty feel all abandoned at night