Wedding days are all-about-the-bride days. If the bridesmaid could not be genuinely happy for the bride and groom on their day, then she actually did the right thing to withdraw.
If the replacement bridemaids agreed to pay for the dress, then it was a verbal contract and shoould be honored. However, the bridesmaid should have let it go and considered it part of the bride's gift.
My daughter was just in the wedding of one of her best friends. Besides the cost of the dresses/accessories for the ceremony, reception, rehearsal, and showers, there was the cost of the showers, gifts, bachlorette party, expense of travel and misc. During the reception, she found out the couple had actually been married three years ago - so the bride could get his service benefits while he was in Iraq. The part that hurt - her "best frined" told some peope, but not her. The bride doesn't understand why it should matter.
If the replacement bridemaids agreed to pay for the dress, then it was a verbal contract and shoould be honored. However, the bridesmaid should have let it go and considered it part of the bride's gift.
My daughter was just in the wedding of one of her best friends. Besides the cost of the dresses/accessories for the ceremony, reception, rehearsal, and showers, there was the cost of the showers, gifts, bachlorette party, expense of travel and misc. During the reception, she found out the couple had actually been married three years ago - so the bride could get his service benefits while he was in Iraq. The part that hurt - her "best frined" told some peope, but not her. The bride doesn't understand why it should matter.