Hello! I'm new here and in a dilemma with three cats.
I am currently 14, living in a small house with my parents. They forbid me from bringing cats into the house so I have to keep my cat outside. I am very affectionate to cats and I feed every stray cat I come across (except males). I tamed a feral female cat two years ago and now its almost about to give birth to its third litter (as far as I know). Recently, a male cat showed up at my door. Its face looked like a female cat's so I decided to feed it. It is very affectionate but has only one problem. Like all male cats, it also defecates everywhere and my mom forced me to scare it away, so I obeyed. Only none problem - it won't leave. It just keeps yowling at me until I get close to it and then runs away. Now, a third feral cat showed up, young and very hungry. I fed it but it growls and hisses at my first cat, even thought my first cat does not. The young cat is very playful but my first cat is very dear to me. Where I live, there is no animal shelter nor vet.
First of, I want to know how to get rid of the male and second, how to keep peace between the other two. Even though it hurt my heart to do so, I grabbed the male's tail and threw it and did several other things, nothing can keep him away.
I am currently 14, living in a small house with my parents. They forbid me from bringing cats into the house so I have to keep my cat outside. I am very affectionate to cats and I feed every stray cat I come across (except males). I tamed a feral female cat two years ago and now its almost about to give birth to its third litter (as far as I know). Recently, a male cat showed up at my door. Its face looked like a female cat's so I decided to feed it. It is very affectionate but has only one problem. Like all male cats, it also defecates everywhere and my mom forced me to scare it away, so I obeyed. Only none problem - it won't leave. It just keeps yowling at me until I get close to it and then runs away. Now, a third feral cat showed up, young and very hungry. I fed it but it growls and hisses at my first cat, even thought my first cat does not. The young cat is very playful but my first cat is very dear to me. Where I live, there is no animal shelter nor vet.
First of, I want to know how to get rid of the male and second, how to keep peace between the other two. Even though it hurt my heart to do so, I grabbed the male's tail and threw it and did several other things, nothing can keep him away.