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Hi everyone I'm new to the forum and I have an issue with my new cat. I am desperate to find an answer.
I got my cat from a cat rescue shelter. It's about 1 year old, British short hair tabby, brown and black stripes.
When I got the cat home his personality was great. He was calm, relaxed, very loving. He would follow me around the house everywhere I went. He would jump up on my lap and want to cuddle. Very affectionate. He slept at the foot of the bed and was very polite and never woke me up. My cat and I were best friends.
One day we were playing and I had a long string. He was chasing it all around the house having a good old time. Then he got real frisky and wanted to play with me and started chasing me.
I figured I would return the play game and so turned around and ran after him and zipped away and I couldn't find him. He ran out from under the sofa, ran upstairs than ran downstairs. Finally I found him hiding behind the washing machine and I had to pull him out.
That day he gave me a real big attitude and turned his back toward me all day, stopped following me around and just sat on the bed all day. I took me a whole day of hold him and showing him affection that he started to warm back up and accept me again.
But now he is very skittish and is not as open and friendly anymore. He basically hides under the bed most of the day, will not sleep at the foot of the bed anymore. Will not follow me around anymore. He creeps out of the bedroom from under the bed and sometimes I call to him and he runs back under the bed.
He is not interactive anymore, not outgoing anymore, not affectionate anymore, runs away from me and just hides and sleeps all day long. It's getting to the point now that all I do is change his litter box and give him food and water and I never see him. This is not what I got a cat for. Everything was great until that one simple, tiny little incident.
I think by playing the chase game with him triggered something in his past ownership or sparked some innate fight or flight response and now he no longer trusts me.
I've tried everything and It's getting to the point where I might have to take him back to the shelter because I can't have a cat just sitting under the bed all day long only coming out to poop and eat and running away from me. He looks like a lazy frog just sitting crouched under the bed all day.
Please help or he may have to find another owner that he can re-bond with.
Thanks!
I got my cat from a cat rescue shelter. It's about 1 year old, British short hair tabby, brown and black stripes.
When I got the cat home his personality was great. He was calm, relaxed, very loving. He would follow me around the house everywhere I went. He would jump up on my lap and want to cuddle. Very affectionate. He slept at the foot of the bed and was very polite and never woke me up. My cat and I were best friends.
One day we were playing and I had a long string. He was chasing it all around the house having a good old time. Then he got real frisky and wanted to play with me and started chasing me.
I figured I would return the play game and so turned around and ran after him and zipped away and I couldn't find him. He ran out from under the sofa, ran upstairs than ran downstairs. Finally I found him hiding behind the washing machine and I had to pull him out.
That day he gave me a real big attitude and turned his back toward me all day, stopped following me around and just sat on the bed all day. I took me a whole day of hold him and showing him affection that he started to warm back up and accept me again.
But now he is very skittish and is not as open and friendly anymore. He basically hides under the bed most of the day, will not sleep at the foot of the bed anymore. Will not follow me around anymore. He creeps out of the bedroom from under the bed and sometimes I call to him and he runs back under the bed.
He is not interactive anymore, not outgoing anymore, not affectionate anymore, runs away from me and just hides and sleeps all day long. It's getting to the point now that all I do is change his litter box and give him food and water and I never see him. This is not what I got a cat for. Everything was great until that one simple, tiny little incident.
I think by playing the chase game with him triggered something in his past ownership or sparked some innate fight or flight response and now he no longer trusts me.
I've tried everything and It's getting to the point where I might have to take him back to the shelter because I can't have a cat just sitting under the bed all day long only coming out to poop and eat and running away from me. He looks like a lazy frog just sitting crouched under the bed all day.
Please help or he may have to find another owner that he can re-bond with.
Thanks!