Okay I was thinking about this while at dinner last night. I am really tired of being single. And I want to know who else is tired of it.
Originally Posted by Sibohan2005
I'll join the club.... I'm tired of it but there don't seem to be any offers coming in lately.
Originally Posted by Sibohan2005
I'll join the club.... I'm tired of it but there don't seem to be any offers coming in lately.
I feel the exact same way and I am not that old but I feel like I will never find that one special person. And I don't just want someone I want a love that will last one of those ones that we complete one another that we can feel each others presence and we want to be together and we can talk for hours about anything whether it be intelligent conversation or talking about the silliest things we can think of. I want that one love that I can tell all of my hopes and dreams to and not worry about them thinking badly of me and them wanting to do the same with me. I want to feel safe with someone for once. I trust people as far as my safety and such as that but as far as letting them really get to know me it kind of comes in stages a little bit at a time. And they gotta love animals.Originally Posted by SophieC
I hear that! I adore my hubby still after being together almost 30 years now. But, if anything were to happen that I was alone again, I wouldn't be looking for another roommate in any way, shape or form. As I've gotten older I've come to enjoy being in my own skin so to speak and don't need anyone to "complete" me.Originally Posted by rosiemac
I love the way i have my relationship with Gil, as in he's in Scotland, and i'm down the road in Northumberland, and we see each other every month and speak on the phone every night.
He's been down for a few days this week, and it was lovely being with himBut i like my space
But the name "Auntie Crazy" might scare them a little.Originally Posted by Auntie Crazy
By the way, for you single guys, I'm in my early 40's and I live in Central Massachusetts.
I SO agree!Originally Posted by SillyJilly
I'm not single but I wanted to sneak in and read the thread so I thought I might as well post!! Hi! Not single, but I will tell you, there is much to be said for being single sometimes! Granted.. Not all the time, but at times you just want to beata man!
Originally Posted by Oscarsmommy
I SO agree!I love Trav to death but sometimes I love my space more
This is pretty much how I feel about the situation I'm in. I don't like the idea of being single, I've been involved in some sort of relationship since I was in high school. BUT now I have a very good reason to stay single, at least for a while. My baby's father isn't exactly marriage material yet, and even though I still hope that we can work things out, I know that it won't be a committed relationship for a long time, if ever.Originally Posted by Auntie Crazy
On the other hand, if God were to send someone my way, I wouldn't dismiss him out of hand. It would be delightful to have a man in my life who loves animals like I do, who shares my values and morals, and who would walk this road alongside of me. Although I am quite capable of handling the tough stuff, and I have plenty of laughter in my life, I truly believe that sharing a sorrow lessons the pain and sharing a joy doubles the delight. If a good guy came along, I would be just as happy to blend our lives together as I am now on my own.