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I did, since it is day 8 it was taken up and I tried to keep it there. I am told she isn't in the house and I'm at a loss.
Oh dear.Yes there was food ate those days too
I would love to do this. Do you know how to explain this to someone who says they looked already every where. They turned the bed upside down. They checked everything and they know how to look for a cat. I know that they do. I don't think they get how deep these cats can hide. Or how fast they can find another place to hide if they don't feel safe in the place they are in. I'm being called non rational because it has been going on nine days and I am not out searching outside while I'm trying to see if she's inside. I know she didn't get out when I took the dogs out because the boy cat was being a brat by the door and I was making him back away as I took the dogs outside. I'm seriously clueless on how to explain this or how to explain to them where to look because of the time frame. All I want to do is find this girl.Are your other animals loose and able to get to her? she may be scared stiff. Cats DO NOT instantly bond, if she comes out she may be attacked. She needs to be separated from them somehow. you might have to check a room and try to keep them in there, or try to figure out which room she is in and close it off. i doubt if she will come out if other animals are around. They mostly climb up INSIDE furniture, squeeze behind fridges and dressers, in places you wouldn't think of. She isn't feral if she let someone pick her up, she is a stray. she WILL tame down once you can close her off from the other animals, properly introduce them to her and are able to interact. You have to take each room one by one and literally check every inch. up inside dressers nd beds, deep in closets, etc.
Sometimes, we just cannot make others understand. My approach would be to ask them to please be considerate of how important this is to you and you would greatly appreciate their support.I hope she will because some think she can't hide that long and they don't hide in small places or move to a different place if they don't feel safe in the one that they were in. How do I explain this to someone that says they looked already every where so she isn't here when I know she was still in here and ate food one night already when we were asleep?