You know what, considering those old phrases, "Where there is a will is a way" which a member earlier mentioned which I liked, and realizing "what's done is done" and we all just have to "take it from here", my reading of your thread shows me that you are a good, caring, cat mommy and DO want to make this work. You know what, it can and I believe it will. So glad that you are considering a second cat when you get back from your trip. That recommendation alone has been expressed by most all of us on this thread. The cattery Pebble will be at sounds pretty cool. I am sure he will be fine. You must understand that when asking for advice/opinions form us on The Cat Site, you are going to get opinions from ALL sides because the one commonality of us members is that we ALL are passionate about cats. It's a good thing to get a wide variety of opinions. In that way you can look for the COMMON VIEWS shared by all members and then form your own choices for what fits for you, Pebble and your fiancée. Hang tight, it will be OK. (By the way, you can ignore this question if you so choose, but is this trip going to be on a honeymoon?) Sorry, I could not resist, ignore that question if you like.
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