I decided to post this poll only because for the past 2 years my family has been very upset with me because of the man I have choosen to share my life with. And I am curious as to what all of you would do in a situation like this. so here's the long story.......
I met this guy when I was dating his best friend. He is a nice sweet guy who I ended up falling in love with after 2 weeks of knowing him as a friend. When I first met him he was jobless with no intention to get one. since then he has worked for 6 months at a 7-11 which he lost, and now he's doing a paper route only making 150 a week. He has a 3 year old son that he doesn't get to see but maybe every couple of months when his mom who has custody of him decides that dakota needs to see his father, and owes 3,000 dollars back child support. He treats me like gold! all the other men I have dated have abused me emotionally and this man has never done anything to hurt me not once! but my family thinks that he is using me for my money and my house. I consider this man my Husband and I refer to him and just that! My parents and siblings have stopped talking to me unless it's an emergancy. when I do talk to my parents their first words are.....so have you dumped the loser yet? He still has some issues that he needs to grow up and change. yet since he has been with me he has grown alot to the point that even all the friends he used to have tell me what a change I have made in him (and don't want to hang with him anymore, But they were all immature little freaks) His money goes into my bank account to pay bills, and to supply us food! My parents know all this and still seem to think that because he doesn't make more money then I do that he is using me. So ANYWAY! what would you guys do??
I met this guy when I was dating his best friend. He is a nice sweet guy who I ended up falling in love with after 2 weeks of knowing him as a friend. When I first met him he was jobless with no intention to get one. since then he has worked for 6 months at a 7-11 which he lost, and now he's doing a paper route only making 150 a week. He has a 3 year old son that he doesn't get to see but maybe every couple of months when his mom who has custody of him decides that dakota needs to see his father, and owes 3,000 dollars back child support. He treats me like gold! all the other men I have dated have abused me emotionally and this man has never done anything to hurt me not once! but my family thinks that he is using me for my money and my house. I consider this man my Husband and I refer to him and just that! My parents and siblings have stopped talking to me unless it's an emergancy. when I do talk to my parents their first words are.....so have you dumped the loser yet? He still has some issues that he needs to grow up and change. yet since he has been with me he has grown alot to the point that even all the friends he used to have tell me what a change I have made in him (and don't want to hang with him anymore, But they were all immature little freaks) His money goes into my bank account to pay bills, and to supply us food! My parents know all this and still seem to think that because he doesn't make more money then I do that he is using me. So ANYWAY! what would you guys do??