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From your lips to God's ears!But they are back together, let's hope it stays this way!!
From your lips to God's ears!But they are back together, let's hope it stays this way!!
Hard to say but I'm sure the meds altered his mind and they both fell into the deep trap of becoming addicted to Fiornal and Esgic and other meds they took.Hi les26
Hard to hear but also it must give you some closure regarding what you've suspected for so long People are going to do what they believe they should do no matter what anyone tells them when they've made up their mind,do you think his judgement was altered due to the medications or just set in his ways?
It was beyond your control but now by having this opportunity to speak about these things on a public Forum you are doing something that brings awareness......it'll make a difference in someone's life .Many things you've shared will greatly benefit others-if that's any consolations
How are they both doing now that they are finally together again?
Thankfully your parents are out of the house and you know they're in rehab where they'll be safe. Unfortunately that doesn't spare you the worry and numerous phone calls. I'm sorry you have to carry this burden and wish it didn't all fall on you.This is what I'm dealing with, just about everyday. It's a miracle that I haven't cracked up!!!
This is what I'm dealing with, just about everyday. It's a miracle that I haven't cracked up!!!
Thankfully your parents are out of the house and you know they're in rehab where they'll be safe. Unfortunately that doesn't spare you the worry and numerous phone calls. I'm sorry you have to carry this burden and wish it didn't all fall on you.
Thank you. I am sorry that you have to deal with this too, but it is the way it has to be I guess.I haven't responded to this thread yet because it's a bit to PTSD for me as I am going through all of this with my mother for the past 3+ years now. My mother is in memory care at an Assisted Living. I've had a few quiet stretches but then the calls start up and again and they've been coming fast and furious lately. I can't echo enough what neely said. You know they are safe. I can not begin to tell you how much I've had to let go over the past three years and it is still very difficult. Sending you lots of
That's really sad, I am sorry you are dealing with these stressful things too!!I had one of those phone calls yesterday. The auntie with dementia, who can hardly walk decided to go to Target about a block from home. She filled a cart with $200 in stuff and then couldn’t figure out how to use her debitcard. I had to rush over, pay for her things and pick her up. My sister is her guardian but she has her own health issues and never seems able to do these emergencies. I told her she was at the point where she absolutely needed a memory care center.
SO sorry. At least we live in an age where it’s healthy to talk about what we’re going through…no need to be stoic and keep it all inside. I hope you find some scraps of humor and love along the way.Got called at 12:07 today, "your dad isn't responding, we're sending him to the hospital". They called and said he was "okay", the EKG was off but it was last week when they did the stress test, his vitals are fine, but they are keeping him to observe and talk with the cardiologists about him.
It..never...ends....
Oh my Lord les26 - Covid?Again?what the heck is going on there?I just can't believe this,they don't come in contact with other patients or visitors so it seems...... ugggh,all that moving around ,transporters etc.... your Dad has been through the mill since this all started,,it's no wonder he's "agitated"..... heck,I'd be through the roof with what he's going throughWell the script from Looney World continues, they wouldn't release my Dad from the hospital until he didn't need "1 on 1 supervision" for 24 hours, they said he was still agitated and wanted to get up and walk around and I said "it's because he is being moved around a lot, and he doesn't want to be in the hospital when there is supposedly nothing wrong with him, just send him back to my Mom", they ran all kinds of tests and found nothing wrong, but were sticking to this train of thought. I called yesterday morning and they said they were going to "huddle" about it, but heard nothing, so I called the hospital last night but no one answered the phone in "observation", so I called the rehab place and asked if he was back there and they told me that he tested positive for Covid!!! They both had that in February, now he got it again?? So I called the hospital and someone finally answered and she said yes he tested positive but has no symptoms, so I don't know what is going on now. The woman at rehab also said "your mother doesn't want him in the room with her, he is very agitated and it's upsetting her and her numbers are way off", so I have to see what the REAL story is there, is my mother really saying that or is that this woman's opinion of it? They said Mom tested negative for Covid.
I cannot believe the way that this is going now, unreal...