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This is my first post at this site. I felt the need to connect with other cat lovers during this most difficult time.
Yesterday, I suddenly had to make what has been the most difficult decision of my life. After my perfectly healthy 8 year-old female tabby Mogwai injured her spinal column (the exact cause is a mystery, but probably due to an awkward fall from somewhere), her hind legs were paralysed. She could only drag herself on the carpeted floor by digging her front claws and pulling herself forward.
I rushed her to the animal hospital at 5 am, where the prognosis given to me was terrible: Her legs were indeed paralysed due to a collapsed verterbrae, including most likely nerve damage in the spine. The costs for an MRI were well beyond what I could afford to spend ($5000 or more), and that would only give more precise information on her condition, not guarantee that she would ever walk normally again, let alone be able to jump, climb, and have the quality of life that she's always had. She had just turned 8 in June, which is middle-aged for a cat, but had never lost her zest for life, playfulness, and vitality. She was only slightly less energetic than she had been in her youth. Sweet and feisty in almost equal measure, but a gentle little soul at her core.
So not able to afford driving myself further into debt with thousands of dollars of costs that didn't guarantee any positive outcome, including expensive steroids that she would then have to take for perhaps months and not even able to go to her litter box by herself (I would've had to put her in her litter box and take her out each time), I asked the vet if the odds of her being normal again were good. His answer was no, he didn't believe so.
Already at almost $1000 for the costs of the emergency, 3 X-rays, sedation, etc., I was forced suddenly to make a decision to euthanize my beloved cat and only companion (I'm a single male living alone). I got a moment in private to say goodbye to her and that was it. My sweet Mogwai was put to sleep. I couldn't bring myself to stay and see her die, so I left the clinic in a state of shock.
I have since been crippled by grief and guilt (at not being willing to spend thousands and thousands of dollars that my low salary can ill afford). I hadn't cried in years, but I find myself now breaking down constantly. Luckily, I'm currently on vacation, so I don't have to go to work for a few weeks, which gives me time to hopefully get over the worst of my grief.
At this time, I don't feel like doing anything. I don't have much appetite. I'm pet-sitting 2 cats and a dog at my friends' house who are away on vacation. Part of the reason Mogwai had her tragic accident probably has a lot to do with not knowing her surroundings as well as she does at my home. I can't figure out where she may have fallen that could've caused this injury. Cats can normally emerge unscathed from falls from great heights. But there were no places that she had access to in this house which were that high up.
I'm crushed by grief, guilt, and not knowing what even caused her terrible injury.
Yesterday, I suddenly had to make what has been the most difficult decision of my life. After my perfectly healthy 8 year-old female tabby Mogwai injured her spinal column (the exact cause is a mystery, but probably due to an awkward fall from somewhere), her hind legs were paralysed. She could only drag herself on the carpeted floor by digging her front claws and pulling herself forward.
I rushed her to the animal hospital at 5 am, where the prognosis given to me was terrible: Her legs were indeed paralysed due to a collapsed verterbrae, including most likely nerve damage in the spine. The costs for an MRI were well beyond what I could afford to spend ($5000 or more), and that would only give more precise information on her condition, not guarantee that she would ever walk normally again, let alone be able to jump, climb, and have the quality of life that she's always had. She had just turned 8 in June, which is middle-aged for a cat, but had never lost her zest for life, playfulness, and vitality. She was only slightly less energetic than she had been in her youth. Sweet and feisty in almost equal measure, but a gentle little soul at her core.
So not able to afford driving myself further into debt with thousands of dollars of costs that didn't guarantee any positive outcome, including expensive steroids that she would then have to take for perhaps months and not even able to go to her litter box by herself (I would've had to put her in her litter box and take her out each time), I asked the vet if the odds of her being normal again were good. His answer was no, he didn't believe so.
Already at almost $1000 for the costs of the emergency, 3 X-rays, sedation, etc., I was forced suddenly to make a decision to euthanize my beloved cat and only companion (I'm a single male living alone). I got a moment in private to say goodbye to her and that was it. My sweet Mogwai was put to sleep. I couldn't bring myself to stay and see her die, so I left the clinic in a state of shock.
I have since been crippled by grief and guilt (at not being willing to spend thousands and thousands of dollars that my low salary can ill afford). I hadn't cried in years, but I find myself now breaking down constantly. Luckily, I'm currently on vacation, so I don't have to go to work for a few weeks, which gives me time to hopefully get over the worst of my grief.
At this time, I don't feel like doing anything. I don't have much appetite. I'm pet-sitting 2 cats and a dog at my friends' house who are away on vacation. Part of the reason Mogwai had her tragic accident probably has a lot to do with not knowing her surroundings as well as she does at my home. I can't figure out where she may have fallen that could've caused this injury. Cats can normally emerge unscathed from falls from great heights. But there were no places that she had access to in this house which were that high up.
I'm crushed by grief, guilt, and not knowing what even caused her terrible injury.
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