2006 has been a very sad time for both sides of my family.
As some of you know, my cousin was recovering from Lukemia and passed away two months after his wedding. My Aunty was hysterical, and so was my mother. My parents still cant face it that they will never see my cousin again.
I just got an email from my mothers sister, telling me her husband has passed away on christmas day from a heart attack, unfortunately due to the move, all letters will be lost at the old address!
My aunty has had alot of problems with her husband in the last couple of years, but my mother was very close to him, I just dont know how to break the news to my mother. I am writing her a letter right now and i just dont know what to say. I am scared that once she reads this letter she will start drinking heavily again.
Do you think i should wait and tell her once i go over and see her? I had asked my father to pay for my flight (its going to be with ryan air) and i plan on going there for just the weekend.
I am at loss for words, in the last 3 years my mother is loosing alot of people that she was very close to. Her mother, her nephews, her friends. I dont know if this is because it comes with age, maybe it just seems like once you turn 50 everyone youre close to seem to vanish.
Unfortunately I dont have many feelings with this news. I cried the whole day when i read about Ambers passing, but I cant cry about my Uncle.
Is this normal?
Any advice is appreciated.
As some of you know, my cousin was recovering from Lukemia and passed away two months after his wedding. My Aunty was hysterical, and so was my mother. My parents still cant face it that they will never see my cousin again.
I just got an email from my mothers sister, telling me her husband has passed away on christmas day from a heart attack, unfortunately due to the move, all letters will be lost at the old address!
My aunty has had alot of problems with her husband in the last couple of years, but my mother was very close to him, I just dont know how to break the news to my mother. I am writing her a letter right now and i just dont know what to say. I am scared that once she reads this letter she will start drinking heavily again.
Do you think i should wait and tell her once i go over and see her? I had asked my father to pay for my flight (its going to be with ryan air) and i plan on going there for just the weekend.
I am at loss for words, in the last 3 years my mother is loosing alot of people that she was very close to. Her mother, her nephews, her friends. I dont know if this is because it comes with age, maybe it just seems like once you turn 50 everyone youre close to seem to vanish.
Unfortunately I dont have many feelings with this news. I cried the whole day when i read about Ambers passing, but I cant cry about my Uncle.
Is this normal?
Any advice is appreciated.