So my cat is very finicky with her lovins. But she does love her momma. She has always been off standing towards company, including my family. But if you ignore her she is fine. I started dating a guy 4 months ago, and she hates him. She hisses and growls when he says anything to her, he tries feeding her per vet recommendations. But today, she lashed out as I was doing laundry, and I saw him kick at her. I of course yelled at him. I don't know if he is doing any harm to her. But I left her alone a couple of weeks ago with him, and she had diarrhea and it was everywhere. Now usually when she gets sick (vomit) or diarrhea, it's in the vicinity of her litter box. Not this time. My vet said it could have been stress related. My bf wants her gone, but she has been in my life for 3 years, him 4 months. So I don't know what to think. Any advice or ideas? I am a stubborn woman who doesn't want to give her up. Lol