Wow. If you didn't find fur, things in disarray, believe me, things were fine. It sounds like it was the perfect opportunity for them to have "alone time" and create the relationship without outside influences.
Could you get a baby monitor camera or something similar to watch when you are not at home? I have those and it helped ease my mind tremendously. I think I found my 2 pack of motorolas at Walmart for about $80. I can watch them using my cell phone when I am at work. That way you can know for sure if you are influencing any behaviors if you can see them when you aren't there.
It honestly sounds like they are doing fantastic. If they shared space for that long with no fur flying, you have it whipped. I honestly don't think I would be worrying, just let them do their own thing, and only intervene if a "true" altercation is about to happen. I mean Sunday until Wednesday? That is a MAJOR accomplishment. MAJOR.
Could you get a baby monitor camera or something similar to watch when you are not at home? I have those and it helped ease my mind tremendously. I think I found my 2 pack of motorolas at Walmart for about $80. I can watch them using my cell phone when I am at work. That way you can know for sure if you are influencing any behaviors if you can see them when you aren't there.
It honestly sounds like they are doing fantastic. If they shared space for that long with no fur flying, you have it whipped. I honestly don't think I would be worrying, just let them do their own thing, and only intervene if a "true" altercation is about to happen. I mean Sunday until Wednesday? That is a MAJOR accomplishment. MAJOR.