*They hope they will change/believe their promises (during the honeymoon stage) to that effectOriginally Posted by LottomagicZ4941
I have often wondered why gals stick with abusive men. Why do women marry these guys?
*They are afraid that they will be hurt or killed if they leave or even attempt to leave
*They want their children to grow up with 2 parents
*Misguided religious/cultural/social beliefs
*Their parents were in an abusive relationship and they've come to accept that abuse is normal in a relationship
*Financial reasons
*Lack of support, either by friends, family, or their community
*They love their abusers (often the #1 reason)
There are many more reasons why people stay with their abusers (since you are being verbally abused by your wife and say that you saw the signs before you married her, you should understand that) and many people enter into/stay in abusive relationshps for a number of reasons.
What's more important, rather than sitting around wondering "Why doesn't he/she LEAVE?" is to ask ourselves "What can we do to help or try to help others who are in these relationships?"