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At any one time over the past 3 years I've had 12-20 cats behind my house. Since my dog passed and my neighbor found one in the creek on death's door I've TNR'd all 20. Of course I've fallen in love with them all. Two males are very attached and affectionate, seeming to want attention (neck and back rubs, etc.) more than even food. Lately, one of the most attentive has become a bully. He's focused on one cat in particular lately who get's along with the other's. Lately, when he chases her or she runs off in fear I've gotten a stick to chase him away - I get so angry!! Then I feel terrible. The other cat has run off and the bully is cowering in fear. I'm trying to think how best to separate them at feeding time. I have 4 1/2 acres much wooded. I don't want to isolate too far because of predators. I do have a full-time job, albeit from home, but still I can't stand around whilst all eat their fill. Not to mention there are others I've had to separate. THis poor baby has made her home in a little cat tube house I purchased which is near the food. She waits and when I come out he greets me and proceeds to gallop full speed at her. Ugh, so frustrating. I know I'm not helping the situation but I can't very well ignore it either. Suggestions welcome.