hey guys, so as a final update for this thread.. i'm making plans to move to the UK and can only take three of my cats. i decided on the ones i did because we found out harley was having stress diarrhea from being scared of our big (75+lbs) dogs. so harley, honey, and the rest of my fosters were very kindly taken in by a rescue in VA and i have three cats left now.
i hated to part with them and it was a hard thing to do, but i couldn't choose one and not keep the other, it didn't feel fair. i also asked the rescue if they would try and keep them together and they said they would.
i miss these girls, but i'm blessed i got to spend the time with them that i did, and i'm lucky they managed to get in my hands in the first place. i'd do it all over again in a heartbeat.