Throwing in my 2c here because I'm "super-new," being totally new to both this site, and to cat ownership in general (2 months and counting into this new adventure!), and therefore one of the completely clueless types who might pop up with silly questions from time to time. So thought my opinion might help put this in perspective!
I don't know what I'd do without TCS. My Sophie came to me totally out of the blue, crying on the porch of an abandoned house, and while I'd had no plans to get a cat any time soon (and had never had one before), she was mine the instant I laid eyes on her. I am so head-over-heels in love with her that I want to know every little thing I can. NOTHING beats actual real-life experience for that, and the second I found this site, after frantically googling "kitten care" the first day I had Sophie at home, it became my Kitten-Raising Bible. I would choose you ladies and gents over some "article from the experts" any day. I mostly lurk here, because 99% of my questions are answered just by skimming the boards!
That being said, I have seen ONE post here (out of the hundreds I've read, not a bad record!) where a single replier went too far and actually insulted the person asking the question (and then replied a second time and made it worse!). That one post has stayed with me, only because it stands in such a contrast to the usual attitudes here, and in that case, may have had a negative impact on the questioner's choices. I think this might be the kind of thing the OP is talking about, and this is why I'm seconding the sentiment. I can't speak for people who might be a little more sensitive/touchy (I tend to have a thick skin!), but I think that as long as the tone is not condescending or insulting (mostly not insulting - I don't mind being put in my place by someone more knowledgeable as long as it's done "gently"!), you guys are fine.
So, just had to throw that in there, because you all deserve huge thanks for the time you put into educating all us "kitty newbies." As long as the tone isn't outright rude or an obvious put-down to the person asking the question, I believe you'll end up with mostly positive reactions.
I don't know what I'd do without TCS. My Sophie came to me totally out of the blue, crying on the porch of an abandoned house, and while I'd had no plans to get a cat any time soon (and had never had one before), she was mine the instant I laid eyes on her. I am so head-over-heels in love with her that I want to know every little thing I can. NOTHING beats actual real-life experience for that, and the second I found this site, after frantically googling "kitten care" the first day I had Sophie at home, it became my Kitten-Raising Bible. I would choose you ladies and gents over some "article from the experts" any day. I mostly lurk here, because 99% of my questions are answered just by skimming the boards!
That being said, I have seen ONE post here (out of the hundreds I've read, not a bad record!) where a single replier went too far and actually insulted the person asking the question (and then replied a second time and made it worse!). That one post has stayed with me, only because it stands in such a contrast to the usual attitudes here, and in that case, may have had a negative impact on the questioner's choices. I think this might be the kind of thing the OP is talking about, and this is why I'm seconding the sentiment. I can't speak for people who might be a little more sensitive/touchy (I tend to have a thick skin!), but I think that as long as the tone is not condescending or insulting (mostly not insulting - I don't mind being put in my place by someone more knowledgeable as long as it's done "gently"!), you guys are fine.
So, just had to throw that in there, because you all deserve huge thanks for the time you put into educating all us "kitty newbies." As long as the tone isn't outright rude or an obvious put-down to the person asking the question, I believe you'll end up with mostly positive reactions.