Odd scents are often an issue with cats. They're very scent oriented.
So I guess now the trick will be-how do I get Isabel to her old personality-and position? Sigh. Four days ago, we were there, now...not so much.
Edit: After I went and talked to the vet, Sadie actually hissed at me when I picked her up to cuddle-about an hour after I'd changed clothes--I still had the smell on me apparently. It stopped after that hiss-like she realized what she was doing, but it let me know that the odd smells were a big problem.
I'm not sure just yet on how to get Isabel back to her norm but I can share my story of my girls and what I went through, it's rather unique and might be helpful in similar ways.
Krissy came to me the day she was born, I was about to close my shop and an acquaintance of mine stopped by my store and said he just left a job site, there had been a momma cat delivering babies nearby, once born due to the workers, momma moved her litter, but left the last one behind.
After the others left he stuck around sitting in his truck so he did not keep mom away and waited to see if she did come, she did not. He couldn't just leave her so he put her in a little box and lo and behold brought her to me, why I have no idea, but I sure am grateful for that move. I love all animals but was more of a dog person and at the time had a Great Dane.
I learned fast how to care for this tiny little mouse critter, and not exactly sure what it was, maybe that she brightened my days in a not so bright time of my life, whatever, but I was so in love with her, oh my gosh, I can't describe it. Even my bf at the time, now ex would say she is a little angel sent down to put smiles and love in my heart when I needed it.
She went to work daily with me, always with me, always. Anywhere I went, traveled with me, etc.
The love I felt for her opened my eyes to the cat world, literally. How many need help, homeless, abandoned, ferals, all of the unwanted litters, etc. so this got me started caring for colonies in my town. TNR'ing and continued care of them all, and still do to this day in fact.
I started a non profit cat rescue group, I am involved in working on the city to make some much needed changes and a program for homeless cats here, have studied a great deal with doctors from UC Davis medical teaching school nearby, am on the board of directors for the local Humane Society and their cat advocate Medical advisor, I've written articles for a local magazine on tnr, etc. and an advisor here.
Krissy literally changed the direction of my life, and IS the baby She has a calm, mild way about her, she is quiet, low keyed, sweet.
During the first several years I discovered a cat who would only show up now and then at a colony nearby, that just didn't fit in, pure white long haired persian.
Well I snapped her up, that is Simone.
Simone was shy at first with me, but bonded fast, she was brought home and immediately showed she was used to fending for herself and was aggressive and pushy towards Krissy.
She was to be the top cat.
Krissy was raised by me and had no idea what Simone was up to, why she was treating her like this, etc.
It hurt my heart for her innocence, and it felt so unfair.
So despite the fact that Simone was used to scrapping her way around and was a tough cookie, and could easily beat the poop out of Krissy, she has a much stronger personality, much confidence, etc. I wouldn't let her take that position away from Krissy.
So the only way I could help Krissy keep her status was to constantly be on guard for Simone's antics and attacks and intervene.
Stalking and pouncing, hiding around a corner in wait, I had to put Krissy's food dish down first, I had to keep removing Simone from Krissy's spot that she ran her off from and placing Krissy back there, including the endless nights of waking up with Krissy somewhere else and Simone in her spot next to my head in bed, and so many other ways, all of it.
In other words I was the one to choose Krissy to be on top, and left no choice to Simone.
It took years for Simone to finally accept this, she just wouldn't let up. When she finally did, I still had to, and still do now, keep an eye on anything that is a possible attempt to de-throne Krissy.
It all finally worked out in the end, with Krissy now almost 14 (April 4th) and Simone at somewhere around maybe 15-16+ but this was a good 10 years ago now.
They are both my girls, and I adore them. But I had a very long road to travel in getting here. Huh, when I think back............
Anyway, this shows me that you can help play a part in how things go down in your home. It doesn't mean you love one over the other either, I know you love them both, but what worked is how it was, not how it's been lately.
So maybe give this some thought too.
At least you aren't starting from scratch, and you know yours are capable of accepting each other just fine.
Krissy and Simone have nor will they, EVER play together.
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