I'm so aggervated with my husband. Ever since we got married (7years ago), the only responsabilty that he has had is to go to work everyday and take out the trash. That's it!!!!!! I do the bills, make deposits, run the financial side of our business, cook, clean, raise the kids, grocery shop, take care of all of his things (he works 14 hour days - 5 days/week).
Well, to get to the point.......I'm sick of having little or no help!!
He acts like I'm supposed to do eveything and all he is supposed to do is go to work. When I ask him to do something for me he acts as if I just asked him build me a 5,000 sq. foot house from scratch!
He refuses to show that he loves me (I know that he does) but I need him to do that. I've gained weight since we were married and do not feel great about myself. I recently lost 15 lbs and have decided to reward myself for every 15 lbs that I lose. He hasn't said a thing.......I rewarded myself with a professional highlight in my hair yesterday and still....not a word.
For Christmas, (he does this evey year), he waited until we got home late that night, after everyone had exchanged gits to give me mine (not wrapped). My son, husband and I did Christmas at 7:30 am......just aggervates me and makes me fume all day long!
Anyone who calls and needs his help.....he's out the door. But for me, I have to ask him forever!!!! For instance, someone GAVE us a wooden fence 2 years ago.......it sat in the backyard against the house until Oct. of this year. One side is done and it will probably be another 2 years before it's finished. His excuse was that I was nagging him to do it. Come on, 2 years???
I do have to give it to him that his job is not easy by any means and he never misses a day of work and I never have to tell him to go to work. He's up every day at 5 am and off to work.
Am I worng for wanting more attention and appreciation? What do I do to get him to change? Do I stop doing for him? Do I move into the spare bedroom for a while? WHAT?????
Well, to get to the point.......I'm sick of having little or no help!!
He acts like I'm supposed to do eveything and all he is supposed to do is go to work. When I ask him to do something for me he acts as if I just asked him build me a 5,000 sq. foot house from scratch!
For Christmas, (he does this evey year), he waited until we got home late that night, after everyone had exchanged gits to give me mine (not wrapped). My son, husband and I did Christmas at 7:30 am......just aggervates me and makes me fume all day long!
Anyone who calls and needs his help.....he's out the door. But for me, I have to ask him forever!!!! For instance, someone GAVE us a wooden fence 2 years ago.......it sat in the backyard against the house until Oct. of this year. One side is done and it will probably be another 2 years before it's finished. His excuse was that I was nagging him to do it. Come on, 2 years???
I do have to give it to him that his job is not easy by any means and he never misses a day of work and I never have to tell him to go to work. He's up every day at 5 am and off to work.
Am I worng for wanting more attention and appreciation? What do I do to get him to change? Do I stop doing for him? Do I move into the spare bedroom for a while? WHAT?????