Really happy to hear that Petey is eating and feeling better. And, I DO get your thinking about letting Bob out for short sessions before Petey's meds are all finished. Thinking the meds will help him through the stress of face to face meet. And, really, it is basically true! Meds will help keep things under control and since he has been SOOOO curious about Bob it was best to let him see and smell Bob up close and personal, so to speak, to ease up on the curiousity a bit.
I really think part of the vocalizing on Bob's part is now two-fold. One: When he was first brought into the house he was in your room and didn't he actually have some interaction with the other cats then too? Two: Then he was moved to the other room with still some short sessions outside of his room to investigate the other part of the house and the new kitties. Putting him back in his room, where he does not want to be, is going to cause 100% vocalizing!!! At this point, since he is so non-aggressive and back's away, then I would allow him more time out of his room under supervision, with toys and treats on hand for them all. Sometimes, with introductions, you have to go with your gut on these things and since Bob has shown absolutely no hissing/growling on his part then you have much less to worry about. STILL - no outside of his room when you are sleeping or at work. He should stay in his room when you are not home and when you cannot supervise interactions. Howling..... sure he will do it, but you won't be home to hear it and in all honesty, by now, Petey and Lulu already know he is in there and his meowing/howling bother's you more than them. They probably don't even hear it anymore. SO - my point. Don't bother (OR TRY :lol3 with his incessant meowing right now. This is only a temporary situation! Try to see it that way and soon enough there will be no more Bob's room.
Most times with feral cat's that you are socializing, when you open up their safe room, they stay put and only venture out a couple of feet each day and then run back to their rooms and may consider that room their safe haven for weeks to come even after you opened them up. With rescue cat's that have already had homes, are completely socialized, and know there is much more to the house than their safe room then they want out of their rooms permanently. Just be strong, be the decision maker for what is best for all of you, mostly Petey and Lulu. It sounds to me, though, that Bob is going to make this easy for you and I am SOOOOO happy to hear that. What a guy. :heart2: And, I am so glad you are going to make this all work regardless of Petey's illness. I think as best as we try to keep stress at bay for our high maintenance anxious kitties, change is inevitable in ours and their lives. We do the best we can for our kitties and our hearts are always in the right place making the best decisions we can at that time.
I really think part of the vocalizing on Bob's part is now two-fold. One: When he was first brought into the house he was in your room and didn't he actually have some interaction with the other cats then too? Two: Then he was moved to the other room with still some short sessions outside of his room to investigate the other part of the house and the new kitties. Putting him back in his room, where he does not want to be, is going to cause 100% vocalizing!!! At this point, since he is so non-aggressive and back's away, then I would allow him more time out of his room under supervision, with toys and treats on hand for them all. Sometimes, with introductions, you have to go with your gut on these things and since Bob has shown absolutely no hissing/growling on his part then you have much less to worry about. STILL - no outside of his room when you are sleeping or at work. He should stay in his room when you are not home and when you cannot supervise interactions. Howling..... sure he will do it, but you won't be home to hear it and in all honesty, by now, Petey and Lulu already know he is in there and his meowing/howling bother's you more than them. They probably don't even hear it anymore. SO - my point. Don't bother (OR TRY :lol3 with his incessant meowing right now. This is only a temporary situation! Try to see it that way and soon enough there will be no more Bob's room.
Most times with feral cat's that you are socializing, when you open up their safe room, they stay put and only venture out a couple of feet each day and then run back to their rooms and may consider that room their safe haven for weeks to come even after you opened them up. With rescue cat's that have already had homes, are completely socialized, and know there is much more to the house than their safe room then they want out of their rooms permanently. Just be strong, be the decision maker for what is best for all of you, mostly Petey and Lulu. It sounds to me, though, that Bob is going to make this easy for you and I am SOOOOO happy to hear that. What a guy. :heart2: And, I am so glad you are going to make this all work regardless of Petey's illness. I think as best as we try to keep stress at bay for our high maintenance anxious kitties, change is inevitable in ours and their lives. We do the best we can for our kitties and our hearts are always in the right place making the best decisions we can at that time.
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