I have an 8 yr old long hair domestic male cat who is fixed (Mr Buttons). I also have a 7 yr old black and white domestic short hair female who is also fixed (Tiny the Cow). I've been living with both of them for around 8 yrs. I got the male first and then almost a yr later I got the female so they are not strangers. Both were kittens when I got them with no history of trauma that I knew of.
For as long as I can remember Mr Buttons has been jealous/dominating of Tiny. Every time Tiny finds a place for herself to sit, whether it be a cat bed or a pillow I placed on the floor for them to sit on, Mr Buttons always eventually pees on it. I stopped buying cat beds because of this behavior. The other day I got a giant bean bag (no actual beans in it!) and my bf and i had been using it along with Tiny and Buttons. Then out of nowhere Mr Buttons decided to pee into the middle of the bag. I was not home when it happened. I am fairly sure I've never been home to witness it happen. My bf didn't know it was happening until I came home and noticed the smell right away.
Along with this inappropriate unrination, Mr Buttons has always been jealous of my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have lived together for the last 2 yrs and Mr Buttons still doesn't seem to want to let me sit with him uninterrupted. I can spend an entire day sitting on my couch with Buttons across the room but as soon as my bf comes home Mr Buttons HAS to try and sit on my lap. Mr Buttons used to also pee on my bf's work clothes (works with cars) in our bedroom. To solve that issue we keep our bedroom door closed at all times and no longer allow the cats in our bedroom.
I have 2 litter boxes (one hooded and the other automatic), a tall scratcher just for Buttons and one just for tiny, a cat tree, and numerous toys.
Sorry for the long explanation but I wanted to give as much insight as possible. I don't know what to do to make Mr Buttons feel better and not let him ruin everything. Please feel free to ask me questions bc I'm at my wits end and just don't know what to do.
For as long as I can remember Mr Buttons has been jealous/dominating of Tiny. Every time Tiny finds a place for herself to sit, whether it be a cat bed or a pillow I placed on the floor for them to sit on, Mr Buttons always eventually pees on it. I stopped buying cat beds because of this behavior. The other day I got a giant bean bag (no actual beans in it!) and my bf and i had been using it along with Tiny and Buttons. Then out of nowhere Mr Buttons decided to pee into the middle of the bag. I was not home when it happened. I am fairly sure I've never been home to witness it happen. My bf didn't know it was happening until I came home and noticed the smell right away.
Along with this inappropriate unrination, Mr Buttons has always been jealous of my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have lived together for the last 2 yrs and Mr Buttons still doesn't seem to want to let me sit with him uninterrupted. I can spend an entire day sitting on my couch with Buttons across the room but as soon as my bf comes home Mr Buttons HAS to try and sit on my lap. Mr Buttons used to also pee on my bf's work clothes (works with cars) in our bedroom. To solve that issue we keep our bedroom door closed at all times and no longer allow the cats in our bedroom.
I have 2 litter boxes (one hooded and the other automatic), a tall scratcher just for Buttons and one just for tiny, a cat tree, and numerous toys.
Sorry for the long explanation but I wanted to give as much insight as possible. I don't know what to do to make Mr Buttons feel better and not let him ruin everything. Please feel free to ask me questions bc I'm at my wits end and just don't know what to do.