Dear Mr. Cat. I knew most of that analysis, living, as I do, in the midst of an Arab sea. I have tried very often to explain to Americans about what I call "Arab" or -- to be more true to the meaning -- Middle Eastern mentality. Blood feuds and honor -- boy, do I know about those. Here, women have a LITTLE more respect, and there are women fighters among the Palestinian terrorists, for example. Bu this is a recent thing and still makes many men uncomfortable -- and I am including now most of the Jews -- about 60 percent of our population -- who originated in Muslim or Arab countries. Their interpretion of Judaism is reminiscent of all the things that fundamentalist Muslims espouse. Jewish far-right religious fundamentalists are every bit as fanatic as Muslim ones are, which is why, perhaps, that I don't hate the terrorists. We have a small percentage of people just like them. One such assassinated Rabin, and others take part in drive-by shootings to randomly kill Arabs. It is no consolation to me that there are fewer of them than there are terrorists in Arab countries. Terrorism has only one face.
I think the advice of Richard Kidd is really excellent. I hope he has at least the contacts to offer his advice to policy makers. NO one in the West understands the thinking of the Arabs.
And I don't mean that is a totally negative way -- that is, the thinking the "mentality" of Arabs. There are so many things about their culture which are admirable, that I am able to honestly admire them, for all we are often at cross-purposes because of our alien-ness to each other. I can never manage the courtesies with such grace. I forget anniversaries, I am uncomfortable when people load me down with gifts every time they see me - in their homes or mine -, I am doubly uncomfortable about the more traditional aspects of their treatment of women. But this, at least, is changing very rapidly here in Israel. When I first came, there had been only one girl who attended university here in the southern half of the country (that was 16 years ago). Then there was a second, and a few northern Arab (as opposed to Beduin) girls started to come down here to university. Now there are probably more Beduin and Arab girls than boys going to Ben-Gurion University -- and things are in such flux that they dress in a variety of levels of conservatism -- all the way from slightly long mini skits or shorts and shirts to full veils (here only the older women cover their faces, and even then it is nothing like the Taliban or Iranian bourkas). No one on campus takes any frustration out on them, and they are equally polite and mannerly. We could be moving about a university in western Europe, with all the troubles far, far away from us while we are on the campus. Strange.
Men are actually changing more slowly than women. But even the most conservative of our university students is a raving social radical compared to the rules Taliban women must follow.
Like our own fundamentalists, the Taliban and their ilk are somewhere back in pre-Dark Ages. God help us all if they should prevail in this world.
I think the things that stood out most from Mr. Kidd's letter was the advice to start ambitious projects in non-Taliban areas that would demonstrate the desire to give people employment and, by example, show them that Americans and other westerners are not Devils, but are truly concerned with everyone's welfare. And the other to just let Afghani wether be the policeman until next summer -- everybody take a time out rather than trying to pursue a real war through the winter. There is also he fact that from mid November to mid December, the country will be shut down anyway because of the snows. So, Mr. Kidd says, use that time to establish good relations, humanitarian projects, building projects -- maybe houses, schools, some hydro electric power or some other thing that might benefit people. And finally, his excllent idea to sow the seeds and the money to entice a Taliban supporter to kill off some of the worst of the Taliban leadership. One of Israel's best efforts in this direction was the assassination of a big terrorist leader living in Gaza. One of his own cousins gave him a get new portable telephone (which then blew up). If you must fight a covert war against people engaged in covert activities, then this last piece of advice from Mr. Kidd is very sensible.
In fact, I hate war and I hate hatred, and I hate seeing anyone die, including terrorists. But like during the second World War, sometimes there are only 2 answers to the problem of an enemy -- either you must let him take over your world and become your oppressor, or you must go at you enemy with everything you have in your arsenal -- including your moral and mental strength and your willingness to be in the struggle until it is finished.
It is almost 6 am and I have been working all night. So now I will lie down and then get up at 8 am and get back to work. I really have to finish this darned book index... I think it is going to be something like 30 pages of 9 point, 2 column, single-space type. At the moment I am on 20 pages...
Peace,
I think the advice of Richard Kidd is really excellent. I hope he has at least the contacts to offer his advice to policy makers. NO one in the West understands the thinking of the Arabs.
And I don't mean that is a totally negative way -- that is, the thinking the "mentality" of Arabs. There are so many things about their culture which are admirable, that I am able to honestly admire them, for all we are often at cross-purposes because of our alien-ness to each other. I can never manage the courtesies with such grace. I forget anniversaries, I am uncomfortable when people load me down with gifts every time they see me - in their homes or mine -, I am doubly uncomfortable about the more traditional aspects of their treatment of women. But this, at least, is changing very rapidly here in Israel. When I first came, there had been only one girl who attended university here in the southern half of the country (that was 16 years ago). Then there was a second, and a few northern Arab (as opposed to Beduin) girls started to come down here to university. Now there are probably more Beduin and Arab girls than boys going to Ben-Gurion University -- and things are in such flux that they dress in a variety of levels of conservatism -- all the way from slightly long mini skits or shorts and shirts to full veils (here only the older women cover their faces, and even then it is nothing like the Taliban or Iranian bourkas). No one on campus takes any frustration out on them, and they are equally polite and mannerly. We could be moving about a university in western Europe, with all the troubles far, far away from us while we are on the campus. Strange.
Men are actually changing more slowly than women. But even the most conservative of our university students is a raving social radical compared to the rules Taliban women must follow.
Like our own fundamentalists, the Taliban and their ilk are somewhere back in pre-Dark Ages. God help us all if they should prevail in this world.
I think the things that stood out most from Mr. Kidd's letter was the advice to start ambitious projects in non-Taliban areas that would demonstrate the desire to give people employment and, by example, show them that Americans and other westerners are not Devils, but are truly concerned with everyone's welfare. And the other to just let Afghani wether be the policeman until next summer -- everybody take a time out rather than trying to pursue a real war through the winter. There is also he fact that from mid November to mid December, the country will be shut down anyway because of the snows. So, Mr. Kidd says, use that time to establish good relations, humanitarian projects, building projects -- maybe houses, schools, some hydro electric power or some other thing that might benefit people. And finally, his excllent idea to sow the seeds and the money to entice a Taliban supporter to kill off some of the worst of the Taliban leadership. One of Israel's best efforts in this direction was the assassination of a big terrorist leader living in Gaza. One of his own cousins gave him a get new portable telephone (which then blew up). If you must fight a covert war against people engaged in covert activities, then this last piece of advice from Mr. Kidd is very sensible.
In fact, I hate war and I hate hatred, and I hate seeing anyone die, including terrorists. But like during the second World War, sometimes there are only 2 answers to the problem of an enemy -- either you must let him take over your world and become your oppressor, or you must go at you enemy with everything you have in your arsenal -- including your moral and mental strength and your willingness to be in the struggle until it is finished.
It is almost 6 am and I have been working all night. So now I will lie down and then get up at 8 am and get back to work. I really have to finish this darned book index... I think it is going to be something like 30 pages of 9 point, 2 column, single-space type. At the moment I am on 20 pages...
Peace,