I need to vent, and I know that you all will help me out here...
My best friend - her name is Christina. We've been good friends for about a year now and she's a real bubbly person, happy person. She started dating this guy before Christmas and they got really serious too fast. He broke up with her cuz he just wasn't ready for a relationship at the moment. (They are both 18)
She has been depressed ever since then - telling me that she will NEVER find anyone again, blah blah - so now they started hanging out again and he has gotten her into drugs and drinking excessivley - which she was TOTALLY against when I first met her. I have tried to tell her that he's no good for her but she comes back saying she'll never find anyone else.
He's totally changed her - she has been depressed and says she's going to stop eating b/c he won't return her calls, but then she says she doesn't want a relationship with him?
What am I supposed to do? She's becoming a totally different person, and she's even acting totally different towards me! Like she's making me feel guilty for things that I have no control over!
I'm just lost at what I'm supposed to do, or even say!
She says she doesn't want to hear what I have to say cuz she wants to learn from her mistakes!
Somehow I feel like this friendship isn't as true as I thought it was
My best friend - her name is Christina. We've been good friends for about a year now and she's a real bubbly person, happy person. She started dating this guy before Christmas and they got really serious too fast. He broke up with her cuz he just wasn't ready for a relationship at the moment. (They are both 18)
She has been depressed ever since then - telling me that she will NEVER find anyone again, blah blah - so now they started hanging out again and he has gotten her into drugs and drinking excessivley - which she was TOTALLY against when I first met her. I have tried to tell her that he's no good for her but she comes back saying she'll never find anyone else.
He's totally changed her - she has been depressed and says she's going to stop eating b/c he won't return her calls, but then she says she doesn't want a relationship with him?
What am I supposed to do? She's becoming a totally different person, and she's even acting totally different towards me! Like she's making me feel guilty for things that I have no control over!
I'm just lost at what I'm supposed to do, or even say!
She says she doesn't want to hear what I have to say cuz she wants to learn from her mistakes!
Somehow I feel like this friendship isn't as true as I thought it was