I really don't get what is possibly wrong with her choice... She is financially and emotionally stable, healthy, proved to be capable of bear a healthy child which she did quite recently, has her partner support, family support, has the knowledge and maturity to raise wonderful human beings who will be great for this society. What seems to be the problem? Because she doesn't "fit the norm"? Well, a short while back neither did woman voting or working, or having a voice, for that matter. Or blacks... or anything different at all.
And what is the problem with her wanting to have her own child? Why is she selfish in satisfying her most basic need? Maternal instincts is something so powerful that can't just be undermined like that IMHO. Everyone should have the right to have a choice, and this is her choice... I personally don't see why she should have to give up on her dream of having babies of her own because others might not see fit...
My biggest dream was always to have a baby... Time is quickly slipping away as I turn 37 this year, and I see how this could be me one day... Frankly, I personally wouldn't take adoption out of the picture (personally), but my first choice will be trying for a child of my own, and I will see nothing wrong with that. I can also say that I am now at 37 far more prepared than when I was at 25-26, in all areas of my life, no doubt about it, and I have no question that I will be even better when I am 40.
Just my opinion FWIW.
And what is the problem with her wanting to have her own child? Why is she selfish in satisfying her most basic need? Maternal instincts is something so powerful that can't just be undermined like that IMHO. Everyone should have the right to have a choice, and this is her choice... I personally don't see why she should have to give up on her dream of having babies of her own because others might not see fit...
My biggest dream was always to have a baby... Time is quickly slipping away as I turn 37 this year, and I see how this could be me one day... Frankly, I personally wouldn't take adoption out of the picture (personally), but my first choice will be trying for a child of my own, and I will see nothing wrong with that. I can also say that I am now at 37 far more prepared than when I was at 25-26, in all areas of my life, no doubt about it, and I have no question that I will be even better when I am 40.
Just my opinion FWIW.