Ok, let me first apologize for not coming on sooner on this thread to answer when all of you are trying to help me with this and giving your thoughts and opinions. Life just gets hectic and then we forget our threads and postings.
Sorry I didn't not make things clear enough when I did the original post since I mainly focused on making it short.
Now when I was reading the series of books (way back in 03). The book jacket said she is a therapist and lives with her chiropractic husband. It was an office phone number when my husband made the original phone call right after I finished the series (which she now has more books since then but have not read yet). I don't remember how we got that phone number. My husband was in a near fatal auto accident back in 02 and needed a chiropractor so we thought why not give her husband the business. My husband phoned her and asked if her husband took Medicare and she said he did not take Medicare but knows of someone who does and thus gave the referral. We are still in 03 now.
Two years later (2005), when things worked out great with the chiropractor, I phoned them and the husband answered and I was phoning them just to thank them. We are the type of people who don't just do complaining of bad service but we give praised too if we get good service (which I have another story to tell in another thread pertaining to something else). Anyway, when her husband answered, I praised that chiropractor and he was the one who got friendly with me. I was going to make it a short convo but he turned it a little longer but not too personal and he then told me of another book that his wife (the author) will release soon (in 05) and even told me of a release event combined with the book signing and he wanted our address so he could mail the invite. We got the invite but did not attend the event. I forget why.
Then when we got Avalon (our kitty) who was still only three months old and cuter than a button and still is, I phoned again since I just wanted to not only praise her writing again but I was just overjoyed over our new kitty (first time I had a kitty) that I wanted to share this with her. Now you know the rest of the convo since it is in my original post. I simply felt insulted because of the remark "If I want to see a cat, I will go to the humane society". That is an insult to Avalon.
I can understand about paranoia on stalkers but I am not that type of person since my time is more valuable than that and no one is simply not worth it to me. I am not trying to be smart here but I get very defensive where my pets are concerned.
I mean when one of my husband's brother who is not a nice person made a remark that "all over a frgnng cat" (this was on another subject and not this since I don't discuss books and writers with him). That remark also insulted me. I mean if I made the same remark about his dog, he would get insulted too.
I don't mean for this to be very long, but I realize I was very vague in my opening thread. I do honestly appreciate all the opinions and help you guys gave me.