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Regarding venting about the hubby--in my personal experience, most of the men I know don't seem to be as sensitive to the needs of animals as women are, because of the fact that we are the child bearers, I guess, and always are more intuitive when caring for others. Men have their uses, (after all, someone had to go out and slay those dinosaurs back in the day) but most women with children or pets seem to be naturally more nurturing. So, in my situation, I've had to accept that my husband is not going to be as understanding about the needs of our animals as I am. When we were raising children, it was the same. He seems to think if you meet the basic needs, then that's good enough--he doesn't understand that "good enough" is not good enough for me--or most Moms. We want the best for our babies. So listen to your instincts, and smile and nod when he gives his advice, but keep doing what you're doing. Mama knows best when rearing babies (in most cases--I know there are a lot of men who are true cat lovers also.)
Perhaps your husband thinks he's being helpful, trying to get you not to worry. Men want to "solve" problems--not necessarily discuss them. )
Perhaps your husband thinks he's being helpful, trying to get you not to worry. Men want to "solve" problems--not necessarily discuss them. )