I have been worried like you wouldn't believe for my best Friend. We have been friends since 3rd grade, she married a guy I was friend with since the 6th grade, I was even in her wedding. We talk at least once a week every week since high school.
We live several hours away so calling each other is a occasion. I called her on the 9th of Jan to see how she was (She was due to have her baby on the 9th) So when I talked to her she told me she was having a sonogram on Monday to see how much room the baby had and weather they were going to induce. I tried to get hold of her 3 times after the 15th (which was the Monday) I finally got ahold of her tonight... She had the baby on the 15th and didn't call me... I mean its been 10 whole days and she couldn't pick up the phone, I know there is a lot to do with a new baby and she has a two year old so I can understand not calling for a few days.
Am I being selfish? I think I might be bing a little touchy since I'm not there. I was the first person she called when her first daughter was born (After her parents were called of course)
Am I a bad friend?
We live several hours away so calling each other is a occasion. I called her on the 9th of Jan to see how she was (She was due to have her baby on the 9th) So when I talked to her she told me she was having a sonogram on Monday to see how much room the baby had and weather they were going to induce. I tried to get hold of her 3 times after the 15th (which was the Monday) I finally got ahold of her tonight... She had the baby on the 15th and didn't call me... I mean its been 10 whole days and she couldn't pick up the phone, I know there is a lot to do with a new baby and she has a two year old so I can understand not calling for a few days.
Am I being selfish? I think I might be bing a little touchy since I'm not there. I was the first person she called when her first daughter was born (After her parents were called of course)
Am I a bad friend?