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Hi I’ve posted regarding my kitten being a little terrorist towards my older cat. A few weeks after we got the kitten, Gollum, my older cat precious was diagnosed with an inoperable tumour in her neck. She showed some signs of pain before she was diagnosed and put on steroids but she’s currently not displaying any outward symptoms that I can detect.
We have made progress with their relationship, they can sleep in the same room together provided Gollum is tired out. He watches her eat and doesn’t interfere. He slow blinks when he sees me touching her. She actively seeks to be around him but absolutely hates that he ambushes her, there are days when it’s worse than others. Sometimes he won’t bother her much at all, other days he will chase, bite, try to tackle her, run up the stairs in front of her so she can’t get past. But I don’t believe there is any animosity on either side.
They spend a lot of time apart and so precious does get lots of time away from him, more so now we know she is sick, they are probably only around one another for 3-4 hours per day.
I’ve read that most of what he’s doing is pretty typical of kittens but it did occur to me, is he picking up on the fact that she is sick and therefore reacting to it? He does appear to want to dominate? Or am I over thinking it?
We have made progress with their relationship, they can sleep in the same room together provided Gollum is tired out. He watches her eat and doesn’t interfere. He slow blinks when he sees me touching her. She actively seeks to be around him but absolutely hates that he ambushes her, there are days when it’s worse than others. Sometimes he won’t bother her much at all, other days he will chase, bite, try to tackle her, run up the stairs in front of her so she can’t get past. But I don’t believe there is any animosity on either side.
They spend a lot of time apart and so precious does get lots of time away from him, more so now we know she is sick, they are probably only around one another for 3-4 hours per day.
I’ve read that most of what he’s doing is pretty typical of kittens but it did occur to me, is he picking up on the fact that she is sick and therefore reacting to it? He does appear to want to dominate? Or am I over thinking it?