Joined because i had to, I think i made an account a long time ago but I forgot so -shrug- I don't have that cat anymore i made the account for anyway. I had a cat that we adopted from the shelter who we named Mitten - grandparents couldn't pronounce the name right and I was beyond frustrating. Then we got a cat named Ciara (who I thought was Clara cause the I was weird looking on the paper) so I called Clara, and well my grandparents kept thinking of Mitten, and because my grandpa has dementia he called Clara Mitten. My grandma calls her 'Kitty Boo' so I just call her 'Cat' for the sake of my sanity and by now she doesn't have a name and I could care less on what to call her.
So 'Cat' has a variety of problems. She rubs up against me like she wants to be petted, acts all sweet and loving - and then when you walk away she lashes out at you with her claws. She also hates being picked up and will bite you with her vampire-like teeth if ever provoked. She hates being touched on her stomach, as well. She's 11 years old, and I'm not asking much - I'm just trying to figure out WHY she doesn't want to be petted for certain periods of time and I don't want to just 'deal with it'. She's a cat I adopted for my grandparents who are very elderly and have high levels of stress because they've got severe health issues.
Eventually they'll wind up in a nursing home and if we have to take her back she'll be un-adoptable. So the least I can do is figure out why she's being like this and help her NOW and that way if she is taken back she'll be better and have a better chance at getting a home again? I don't know. No one's gonna want her if she keeps acting like this by the time my grandparents go to the home because of her personality so I want to condition-train her and help her get out of her funk... If that makes sense.
I can't give up - either. Because again, her life depends on it. ; /
I have a strong feeling she was abused by her previous owners. Though also - I have no idea who those people WERE. She's 11. Shes had a long life. So many homes she could've gone through before winding up in the shelter? Who knows where she could've been? I think she also has Arthritis but she wont let me pick her up, and she wont go in the crate. So I have to train her out of that fear, and god there's so much I have to do.
If I wanted to get her to the vet before I started training her couldn't I just give her a calming aide like Valium (what I give my dogs) or something like that to make her calmer so she wouldn't be so stressed - i give them a dose barely the size of my pinkey finger and this is my Chi/Dachshund mix whose 14 we're talking about. This is speaking, if i wanted to see if she had Arthritis and was in any physical pain we couldn't see and perhaps medicine could help that...
Please help ; /
So 'Cat' has a variety of problems. She rubs up against me like she wants to be petted, acts all sweet and loving - and then when you walk away she lashes out at you with her claws. She also hates being picked up and will bite you with her vampire-like teeth if ever provoked. She hates being touched on her stomach, as well. She's 11 years old, and I'm not asking much - I'm just trying to figure out WHY she doesn't want to be petted for certain periods of time and I don't want to just 'deal with it'. She's a cat I adopted for my grandparents who are very elderly and have high levels of stress because they've got severe health issues.
Eventually they'll wind up in a nursing home and if we have to take her back she'll be un-adoptable. So the least I can do is figure out why she's being like this and help her NOW and that way if she is taken back she'll be better and have a better chance at getting a home again? I don't know. No one's gonna want her if she keeps acting like this by the time my grandparents go to the home because of her personality so I want to condition-train her and help her get out of her funk... If that makes sense.
I can't give up - either. Because again, her life depends on it. ; /
I have a strong feeling she was abused by her previous owners. Though also - I have no idea who those people WERE. She's 11. Shes had a long life. So many homes she could've gone through before winding up in the shelter? Who knows where she could've been? I think she also has Arthritis but she wont let me pick her up, and she wont go in the crate. So I have to train her out of that fear, and god there's so much I have to do.
If I wanted to get her to the vet before I started training her couldn't I just give her a calming aide like Valium (what I give my dogs) or something like that to make her calmer so she wouldn't be so stressed - i give them a dose barely the size of my pinkey finger and this is my Chi/Dachshund mix whose 14 we're talking about. This is speaking, if i wanted to see if she had Arthritis and was in any physical pain we couldn't see and perhaps medicine could help that...
Please help ; /