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I'm glad you got what I meant. I don't want you to make enemies.Originally Posted by Bellaandme
Thanks guys. I do understand what strange wings is saying. Though i try not to prejudge people, I'm human so it may happen. That's why i stepped back, vented a little and came to you guys for opinions. I think I expect people who have cats to treat them like the little treasures they are. I'm such a doting cat lover that I always knew where my cats were. I've had a cooling off period now so i won't be nasty to her when we talk.
Good luck visiting with her later.
And no, my reference to some posts in other threads had nothing to do with you at all. The latest of which I don't even think you posted in for that matter.
And yes, it frustrates me that I take cat care more seriously than many others around here (my town, not the forum) do. Case in point: I consider my insurance agent to be a nice woman, but she didn't even think once that her cat suddenly peeing outside of the litter box could be a health issue and a serious one for a boy cat. I even managed not to cringe when she said he was declawed and she put him outside.
Others don't think the way we do.
Another example from people on here: Individuals not providing their turtles with the same degree of care as their cats! I could call them terrible people but for most it's ignorance and not intentional neglect.
Often times reading up or joining a interest group in a topic/subject can spur their interest and the degree to which they dedicate themselves to it. Hence why I suggested inviting her here.