Ok, since I"m up late (again), I was thinking about something that I just did that I've heard a lot of women do and I don't know why.
About a month ago, I ended a long relationship with a guy I was seeing and since then I have - Joined a gym, gone on a diet, cut 6" off my hair, layered it and highlighted it, had my nails professionally done, and had my eyebrows done. None of this I was very much into before (when we were dating), but suddenly I feel the urge to change all these things. Why? I'm just curious because I've heard so many women do things like this after a breakup. Why do we do it? For me, I think, it felt almost like taking a shower after being out in the woods for days - I just feel sooooooo much better with every thing I do. But - why do I only feel better now? Would I have felt the same way had I done all these things when I was still with him? Why didn't I feel the need to do these things till he was gone?
And lastly - what do men do????? Do they do anything?
(as I said - up late again + can't sleep = too much time to think
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About a month ago, I ended a long relationship with a guy I was seeing and since then I have - Joined a gym, gone on a diet, cut 6" off my hair, layered it and highlighted it, had my nails professionally done, and had my eyebrows done. None of this I was very much into before (when we were dating), but suddenly I feel the urge to change all these things. Why? I'm just curious because I've heard so many women do things like this after a breakup. Why do we do it? For me, I think, it felt almost like taking a shower after being out in the woods for days - I just feel sooooooo much better with every thing I do. But - why do I only feel better now? Would I have felt the same way had I done all these things when I was still with him? Why didn't I feel the need to do these things till he was gone?
And lastly - what do men do????? Do they do anything?
(as I said - up late again + can't sleep = too much time to think