I know this is sort of a strange question to ask a bunch of strangers and I feel like a complete fool asking but Im a little clueless sometimes
So I've recently (sort of, about 10 months ago) moved from WA to ME and since I've been here, married/unavailable guys are flirting with me. Maybe its my west coast accent, I dunno. I'm not flirting with them, I've got no self esteem so I dont flirt with anyone! I was helping someone out the other day and he had a few friends helping too, and Im doing my own thing, just trying to get the job done and Im in the room with two other guys. One guy starts talking to the other guy and just happens to mention how old he is, things he likes to do, and then he asks me my age, what I do, what I want to be etc. Later on he asks me if I give back rubs. He didnt ask the guys if they gave back rubs. (I said no, actually I didnt even say no, I just shook my head) And then (later) he's asking me how I like my car because he thinks they seem like good cars etc etc but his wife wont let him have one. My neighbor (who since sold his house) had a friend that would whistle at me, the guy lived with his girlfriend. Now a friend of mine from WA, who is married and has like half a dozen kids, is texting me and flirting. And he's not being subtle about it! I dont know whats going on! I dont even know how to respond! Its just weird, nobody flirted with me in Washington, married or not!
So I've recently (sort of, about 10 months ago) moved from WA to ME and since I've been here, married/unavailable guys are flirting with me. Maybe its my west coast accent, I dunno. I'm not flirting with them, I've got no self esteem so I dont flirt with anyone! I was helping someone out the other day and he had a few friends helping too, and Im doing my own thing, just trying to get the job done and Im in the room with two other guys. One guy starts talking to the other guy and just happens to mention how old he is, things he likes to do, and then he asks me my age, what I do, what I want to be etc. Later on he asks me if I give back rubs. He didnt ask the guys if they gave back rubs. (I said no, actually I didnt even say no, I just shook my head) And then (later) he's asking me how I like my car because he thinks they seem like good cars etc etc but his wife wont let him have one. My neighbor (who since sold his house) had a friend that would whistle at me, the guy lived with his girlfriend. Now a friend of mine from WA, who is married and has like half a dozen kids, is texting me and flirting. And he's not being subtle about it! I dont know whats going on! I dont even know how to respond! Its just weird, nobody flirted with me in Washington, married or not!