So I'm happy to say I got engaged for the first time but problems are already arising. My two cats are 7 1/2 years old. For all those years they've shared my bed with me. My fiancé is a high ranking member of a large and volatile police dept. we do not live together yet but he does spend nights here. Finn and Darci do not share the bed when he's here with us. But he complains they get fur on his side of the bed when he's not here.
He doesn't even want them in the bed when he's not here. I think he would be willing to compromise if I could keep the bed fur free. It's really hard because Of the violence in the city he can be called away at any hour or he can end up staying on the site of a crime till 4 or 5 in the morning. I get lonely and I want them in the bed with me. I think you should compromise and he thinks I'm putting them first.
Has anyone experienced these problems I can't be the only one. Any advice would be greatly appreciated I love him but I love them too. At the risk of sounding wackos they really are my best buddies.
Thanks,
Erin
He doesn't even want them in the bed when he's not here. I think he would be willing to compromise if I could keep the bed fur free. It's really hard because Of the violence in the city he can be called away at any hour or he can end up staying on the site of a crime till 4 or 5 in the morning. I get lonely and I want them in the bed with me. I think you should compromise and he thinks I'm putting them first.
Has anyone experienced these problems I can't be the only one. Any advice would be greatly appreciated I love him but I love them too. At the risk of sounding wackos they really are my best buddies.
Thanks,
Erin