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So I've had one cat for a few years and I got another cat about 8 months ago. My old cat, Cali, was being beat up on and I was hoping it would pass. It has not. The thing is I don't think my new cat, Oliver, is really out to get Cali. He seems to just want to play and chase but my girl hisses whenever he gets near. I've gotten the impression several months ago that she would be best off as an only animal which is ironic since I half the reason I got him was as a friend for her. I have always wanted a house full of cats. Like 4-7. I'm just in a studio now so I can only have 2. I know I can't force her to like him but acceptance would be nice. Like if when he want to play she could jump up high out of reach instead of getting in fights with him. I know this isn't an ideal life for her and she had a hard life before me (found on the side of a street with her nursing kittens) and I want to do right by her but I'm also very attached to my boy (he snuggles with me every night). He was in foster for 2 years before I got him.
Growing up we had a cat and a dog and they were friends and we did everything wrong with it came to introducing them. I would say the worse thing with Oliver is that he doesn't always let Cali share bed privileges and sometimes chases her off.
It's been about 5 months since the one and only time of blood shed but it steel had to be emotional stress. I know Cali licks plastic everything a lot which I've read can be caused by stress.
Growing up we had a cat and a dog and they were friends and we did everything wrong with it came to introducing them. I would say the worse thing with Oliver is that he doesn't always let Cali share bed privileges and sometimes chases her off.
It's been about 5 months since the one and only time of blood shed but it steel had to be emotional stress. I know Cali licks plastic everything a lot which I've read can be caused by stress.