Laurie, I read this after I PM'd you, and I am sorry it wasn't the other way round. I can;t imagine what it must be like to be either you or Gary - you are going through so much and yet you remain dane and thoughtful and caring of others, human and furry. I think we all admire you greatly, yet we can do nothing to help. Many, many thoughts are with you, and I only hope a solution will one day be found.