I lost my beautiful Bella a few months ago, I had her for almost 13 years, she was and is my baby and I cry everyday, several times a day, when my husband is here he just hugs me, that's all I need, and the real important thing is, he knows how much Bella meant to me. That's very crucial. I know you understand how much Bagheera meant to Amber, I'm sure it means a lot to her...Just be there for her no matter what. I don't believe, we get over these things, you just learn to live with them, and eventually we find a new normal. I'm sorry for what you are both going through