Wait, are you serious? You can't bring a cat that you already have because he might like you better? That just sounds extremely selfish to me. What would he say if you had kids from a previous marriage? Maybe a good compromise would be if you brought Max and then he got to pick out a whatever he wants for a second cat.Originally Posted by roobear
He has already made it clear that i can't have my cat, Max (currently living with my parents) when we get our own place cos he won't have had the bonding with him that i've had and it won't be fair