Hope, my dear ... I know this has all been horribly frustrating, but honestly, you are overreacting to the circumstances. I don't mean that in a bad way, but you just haven't given this nearly the time it takes ... all cats are different and this one may just need that extra space for now. She won't become feral in the span of just a few days, so please - for the sake of the stress level not only on yourself but also in your home, calm down, remember to breathe and just forget she is even there. As others have already accurately advised, leave food and water out in an accessible place and make sure there is a litter pan available. She will come out when she comes out and you can't force this.
I don't think giving her back to the breeder is such a good idea at this time. As you have pointed out, she has experienced enough stress without going through that too.
Just let this go for now and try to be patient with her. She will come around, but she will do it in her own time.
Hoping this helps,
Gaye
I don't think giving her back to the breeder is such a good idea at this time. As you have pointed out, she has experienced enough stress without going through that too.
Just let this go for now and try to be patient with her. She will come around, but she will do it in her own time.
Hoping this helps,
Gaye