So I have made previous threads before and so far my two cats still have a strained relationship. My younger cat(6 months now) finally gets along with my 1 year old dog. They play fight together and he gets his need to play fight there although I think he got more than he asked for with my dog as she wont leave him alone often. Karma? LOL
However, still whenever he(my youngest) visually sees my older cat(her) he wants to play with her. He often tries to run towards but I usually intercept him by standing in his way and forcing him to find something else to do. He isn't taking my cat's hissing, swatting and often biting or otherwise NO for an answer when it comes to her. I feel like he is trying dethrone her for top spot or something in the house by challenging her.
He doesn't hiss or swat her or anything. The aggression is coming from my older cat and even then she is only aggressive when he bothers her. She is more than willing to have him as a housemate if he behaves basically.
I've tried to just letting them settle the beef but a mini "fight" broke out after my younger cat didnt care less about her obvious constant hissing, swatting and growling when he kept going for her.
For now I keep the separated A LOT and sometimes I let him out and about while my older cat just watches from the kitchen table or something but like I said once he sees her he's trying to figure out how to jump to where she is or (As she watches him)creepily watching her from a distance waiting for her to jump down(And he pretends he isn't looking). Is he bullying my older cat?
My only solution I see pretty far is to keep them apart at least until he's 1 years old and try re-introducing them then. Keep them aware but not to have interaction with each other. Any suggestions would be great here. Most people online said their cats got over it after 2 weeks but it's been 2 whole months of the same behavior.
*EDIT*
Okay to get an accurate behavioral problem. I let my youngest and oldest out together. My youngest will pounce on my oldest and my oldest will start growling, hissing, and swatting. My youngest makes a few attempts to pounce but will stop or walk away. After a good 10-15 seconds or maybe 30 he comes to back repeat the behavior.
One thing they BOTH do is when there doing that weird thing cats do where they pause and wait their tails swish really fast back and forth. And when they get into the squabble the youngest tends to just "fight" while my oldest is taking it serious. She growls and bites him and then they let go.
However, still whenever he(my youngest) visually sees my older cat(her) he wants to play with her. He often tries to run towards but I usually intercept him by standing in his way and forcing him to find something else to do. He isn't taking my cat's hissing, swatting and often biting or otherwise NO for an answer when it comes to her. I feel like he is trying dethrone her for top spot or something in the house by challenging her.
He doesn't hiss or swat her or anything. The aggression is coming from my older cat and even then she is only aggressive when he bothers her. She is more than willing to have him as a housemate if he behaves basically.
I've tried to just letting them settle the beef but a mini "fight" broke out after my younger cat didnt care less about her obvious constant hissing, swatting and growling when he kept going for her.
For now I keep the separated A LOT and sometimes I let him out and about while my older cat just watches from the kitchen table or something but like I said once he sees her he's trying to figure out how to jump to where she is or (As she watches him)creepily watching her from a distance waiting for her to jump down(And he pretends he isn't looking). Is he bullying my older cat?
My only solution I see pretty far is to keep them apart at least until he's 1 years old and try re-introducing them then. Keep them aware but not to have interaction with each other. Any suggestions would be great here. Most people online said their cats got over it after 2 weeks but it's been 2 whole months of the same behavior.
*EDIT*
Okay to get an accurate behavioral problem. I let my youngest and oldest out together. My youngest will pounce on my oldest and my oldest will start growling, hissing, and swatting. My youngest makes a few attempts to pounce but will stop or walk away. After a good 10-15 seconds or maybe 30 he comes to back repeat the behavior.
One thing they BOTH do is when there doing that weird thing cats do where they pause and wait their tails swish really fast back and forth. And when they get into the squabble the youngest tends to just "fight" while my oldest is taking it serious. She growls and bites him and then they let go.
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