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So tonight I went and had coffee again with some guy I had met last week. He seemed nice enough and I was hoping that if I can make it clear to him that I'm not interested in dating, we could be good friends.
Last week we had talked for maybe 10 minutes. Today we talked for around 30 minutes and fairly early on in the conversation, he asked me if I could go see his apartment to help him re-arrange his bedroom.
I thought he was just odd (and maybe clueless) so I changed the topic. As we were leaving, he asked me again. I said I really had to go home. Then he said he would email me tomorow and maybe I could come Monday if I had the time. So either he's trying really hard to get me in his appartment, he's completely clueless or he's absolutely obsessed with interior decorating!
So yeah, I think that's it for the guy. I kind of feel bad for not telling him why I wouldn't go to his apartment, just in case he WAS clueless and not creepy. But the more I think about it, the more it seems creepy to me. Either way, no way I'm finding myself alone with a guy I barely know.
So now I feel kind of lonely. Why is it that most of the people interested in me turn out to be weirdos? (usually kind of creepy too)
Couldn't I at least meet someone who's weird in a GOOD way. (I mean, I know I'm weird, but I don't think I'm creepy weird)
why is it so hard to make friends?
Last week we had talked for maybe 10 minutes. Today we talked for around 30 minutes and fairly early on in the conversation, he asked me if I could go see his apartment to help him re-arrange his bedroom.
I thought he was just odd (and maybe clueless) so I changed the topic. As we were leaving, he asked me again. I said I really had to go home. Then he said he would email me tomorow and maybe I could come Monday if I had the time. So either he's trying really hard to get me in his appartment, he's completely clueless or he's absolutely obsessed with interior decorating!
So yeah, I think that's it for the guy. I kind of feel bad for not telling him why I wouldn't go to his apartment, just in case he WAS clueless and not creepy. But the more I think about it, the more it seems creepy to me. Either way, no way I'm finding myself alone with a guy I barely know.
So now I feel kind of lonely. Why is it that most of the people interested in me turn out to be weirdos? (usually kind of creepy too)
Couldn't I at least meet someone who's weird in a GOOD way. (I mean, I know I'm weird, but I don't think I'm creepy weird)
why is it so hard to make friends?