ok some of you know my kit-kat and max her 9 month old son.and i am sorry this is so long ok we have a new addition to our growing family Gizimo mama's 5 month old son also. he came back to me because his new home already had a cat 4 years old and just lost a 9 year old cat (sick) so when she took gizmo her cat went nuts and gizmo meowed all the time after a couple of weeks giz wanted to play with his new friend and her cat didnt want to hear it 2 weeks later she called me and said it wasnt working out her cat was missarible and giz antaginized her cat plus he was really needy ok sory for the long store i hope it will help who ever reads this can know all the facts it took mama about a week before she accepted giz but max was happy to have his baby brother back giz is a really good kitty but he is very anxtious like he has anxiety he meows if he is all alone if he cant find mom or max he gets all meowy and when he wakes up he is really meowy he loves to be held and cuddled the closer the better for him he is so lovable well he is getting fixed on tuesday and i am worried he is going to freak out he hated the car and is going to be at the place from 9am to 3pm (it is a mobil vet clinic) had mom and max fixed there they were great but i dont know what to do about this one is there any thing they sell i can give him to calm him down i fear he will have a kitty panic atack i am so worried some one please help and advice is so apretiated