You guys should be very proud of me because despite the desire to argue I think I handled this situation with my boyfriends sister quite well...
She BBM'ed me this morning and this was how the conversation went:
Mare!: Hey
*Lyz*: Hey
Mare!: Let me ask u something y doesn't my brother like me
*Lyz*: That's between the two of you... Ask him...
Mare!: Really well I really just opened my eyed lastnight I don't have a brother!
Mare!: Point blank
Mare!: Well everytime I ask him to use his truck its a problem when u drive his truck its different well he could drop the f* dead I'm f*n done!!!
Mare!: He better start looking for somewhere to live
*Lyz*: Again... This is all between the two of you and I'm not getting involved...
Mare!: Well what does he say about me because I know he talks sh*t about me
*Lyz*: But for the record... I have my own car and I don't drive his truck when he is not home...
*Lyz*: And his living situation is between him and your mother...
Mare!: nope because now I'm involve f* him
Mare!: When was the last time he came up and hung out with my kids what a GREAT uncle and god father he is
*Lyz*: Mare, honestly, not to be rude... But the 2 of you need to deal with whatever issues you have like adults... And I really don't need to be put in between...
Mare!: Well my issues went on the table last night with him and now I'm done!!!
*Lyz*: Ok
This is how I would have liked to answer her...
Mare!: Hey
*Lyz*: What do you want, now??
Mare!: Let me ask u something y doesn't my brother like me
*Lyz*: Because you're a (female dog) and you treat him like (crap). You steal money from him and your mother. You manipulate him into helping you and he doesnt get so-much as a thank you. You think everything is owed to you. You don't know how to have a normal conversation without screaming and yelling. You're a drama queen and you're not happy unless you are making other people miserable... is that enough or shall I continue??
Mare!: Really well I really just opened my eyed lastnight I don't have a brother!
Mare!: Point blank
*Lyz*: Good because he'd be much happier if you stopped calling him and aggravating him on a constant basis, anyway.
Mare!: Well everytime I ask him to use his truck its a problem when u drive his truck its different well he could drop the f* dead I'm f*n done!!!
*Lyz*: It's different because I'm good to him and I don't take advantage of him. I don't borrow his truck for one purpose and then use it for another... and I don't give it back to him with an empty tank of gas.
*Lyz*: But for the record... I have my own car and I don't drive his truck when he is not home...
Mare!: He better start looking for somewhere to live
*Lyz*: That is not your decision because he lives with your mother (2 days a week when he's not in Virginia) not with you... and you do nothing to help your mother anyway because her house looks like it should be on an episode of Hoarders and you do nothing to help her clean it... He's in Virginia Monday - Friday, what's your excuse for not helping her?!?!
Mare!: Well what does he say about me because I know he talks sh*t about me
*Lyz*: He says you're a (female dog) and he doesnt want anything to do with you. He doesnt ask you where you are because he doesnt care where you are or what you're doing so he'd prefer that you stop asking me where he is or what he's doing... He says that you don't know how to take care of your own kids... He says that you and your husband are lazy, good-for-nothing, creeps and he wishes you'd both just leave him alone... should I keep going?
Mare!: nope because now I'm involve f* him
*Lyz*: You're always involving yourself in situations that are none of your business... You're mother will set you straight when you try to tell her to throw her son out onto the street because you can't get your way!!
Mare!: When was the last time he came up and hung out with my kids what a GREAT uncle and god father he is
*Lyz*: He doesnt want to hang out with your kids because they don't know how to behave and they curse at him and hit him. They treat him the way that you treat him, like he's stupid and doesnt deserve respect. Not to mention that he doesnt want to hang out at your house because everyone in your house gives him a headache because none of you known how to speak at a volume below SCREAM! AND we bought your daughter a birthday present and neither of us received a Thank you... so don't expect anything for either of them for Christmas... especially from me, when your son tried to kick me the last time I was there...
Mare!: Well my issues went on the table last night with him and now I'm done!!!
*Lyz*: So, you called him and threw a tantrum while he was driving 6 hours to Virginia because he wont let you borrow his brand new truck after the last time when you told him that you would crash his truck into a wall because you don't give a (crap) about him or his truck? That's nice... It would have almost been worth the loss of the truck to get rid of you...
Sorry guys, I got a little mean towards the end because the more I wrote the more angry I got... Someday I'm really going to explode
She BBM'ed me this morning and this was how the conversation went:
Mare!: Hey
*Lyz*: Hey
Mare!: Let me ask u something y doesn't my brother like me
*Lyz*: That's between the two of you... Ask him...
Mare!: Really well I really just opened my eyed lastnight I don't have a brother!
Mare!: Point blank
Mare!: Well everytime I ask him to use his truck its a problem when u drive his truck its different well he could drop the f* dead I'm f*n done!!!
Mare!: He better start looking for somewhere to live
*Lyz*: Again... This is all between the two of you and I'm not getting involved...
Mare!: Well what does he say about me because I know he talks sh*t about me
*Lyz*: But for the record... I have my own car and I don't drive his truck when he is not home...
*Lyz*: And his living situation is between him and your mother...
Mare!: nope because now I'm involve f* him
Mare!: When was the last time he came up and hung out with my kids what a GREAT uncle and god father he is
*Lyz*: Mare, honestly, not to be rude... But the 2 of you need to deal with whatever issues you have like adults... And I really don't need to be put in between...
Mare!: Well my issues went on the table last night with him and now I'm done!!!
*Lyz*: Ok
This is how I would have liked to answer her...
Mare!: Hey
*Lyz*: What do you want, now??
Mare!: Let me ask u something y doesn't my brother like me
*Lyz*: Because you're a (female dog) and you treat him like (crap). You steal money from him and your mother. You manipulate him into helping you and he doesnt get so-much as a thank you. You think everything is owed to you. You don't know how to have a normal conversation without screaming and yelling. You're a drama queen and you're not happy unless you are making other people miserable... is that enough or shall I continue??
Mare!: Really well I really just opened my eyed lastnight I don't have a brother!
Mare!: Point blank
*Lyz*: Good because he'd be much happier if you stopped calling him and aggravating him on a constant basis, anyway.
Mare!: Well everytime I ask him to use his truck its a problem when u drive his truck its different well he could drop the f* dead I'm f*n done!!!
*Lyz*: It's different because I'm good to him and I don't take advantage of him. I don't borrow his truck for one purpose and then use it for another... and I don't give it back to him with an empty tank of gas.
*Lyz*: But for the record... I have my own car and I don't drive his truck when he is not home...
Mare!: He better start looking for somewhere to live
*Lyz*: That is not your decision because he lives with your mother (2 days a week when he's not in Virginia) not with you... and you do nothing to help your mother anyway because her house looks like it should be on an episode of Hoarders and you do nothing to help her clean it... He's in Virginia Monday - Friday, what's your excuse for not helping her?!?!
Mare!: Well what does he say about me because I know he talks sh*t about me
*Lyz*: He says you're a (female dog) and he doesnt want anything to do with you. He doesnt ask you where you are because he doesnt care where you are or what you're doing so he'd prefer that you stop asking me where he is or what he's doing... He says that you don't know how to take care of your own kids... He says that you and your husband are lazy, good-for-nothing, creeps and he wishes you'd both just leave him alone... should I keep going?
Mare!: nope because now I'm involve f* him
*Lyz*: You're always involving yourself in situations that are none of your business... You're mother will set you straight when you try to tell her to throw her son out onto the street because you can't get your way!!
Mare!: When was the last time he came up and hung out with my kids what a GREAT uncle and god father he is
*Lyz*: He doesnt want to hang out with your kids because they don't know how to behave and they curse at him and hit him. They treat him the way that you treat him, like he's stupid and doesnt deserve respect. Not to mention that he doesnt want to hang out at your house because everyone in your house gives him a headache because none of you known how to speak at a volume below SCREAM! AND we bought your daughter a birthday present and neither of us received a Thank you... so don't expect anything for either of them for Christmas... especially from me, when your son tried to kick me the last time I was there...
Mare!: Well my issues went on the table last night with him and now I'm done!!!
*Lyz*: So, you called him and threw a tantrum while he was driving 6 hours to Virginia because he wont let you borrow his brand new truck after the last time when you told him that you would crash his truck into a wall because you don't give a (crap) about him or his truck? That's nice... It would have almost been worth the loss of the truck to get rid of you...
Sorry guys, I got a little mean towards the end because the more I wrote the more angry I got... Someday I'm really going to explode