She is the only person who insists on breaking my heart over and over again. She's the only mother I have now. I don't talk to my real mom due to her refusal to get help for her drug problem. I moved in with my dad and step mom when I was 14. We ALWAYS got a long fine! I was a good teenager. When I turned 18 it went down hill. She kicked me out once, then changed her mind. Then second time she kicked me out, she did change her mind but I went anyway. I moved in with my mom and my life turned to
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I almost didn't make it out of that situation. I eventually moved back with my step mom and dad and found a job at an Italian restaurant where the owners took my under their wing and my life finally turned back around and I met my husband. She kicked me out again after being home for eight months and did change her mind but I was having none of it. I moved in with the owners of the restaurant and then moved in with my husband (boyfriend at the time). After that things were going better between my step mom and me again.
A few months ago I voted in this poll on facebook, I was so not trying to start anything! I was just sharing my opinion on MY page. She disagreed with me and commented and debated with some people on my post. She got so mad and blocked me and didn't talk to me for a month. I was devastated, I cried my heart out. Then she just started talking to me again.
Well, I stopped by on Monday to see dad and her and the next day she sent me an email and asked if I was pregnant. That's an annoying question. I was annoyed, partly because we're sort of unofficially trying to have a baby, third month and nada. So I said
"NO, why would you ask that? Why would I not tell you?"
Her: Dad said your boobs were bigger and he bets you are pregnant. And I said, "What in the world?" and then I said, "If she were pregnant she would tell me." Then he said, "Bet she is and doesn't know it yet." So go get a kit and check it out so I can say HA to your dad. The things he notices.....weird guy. V
Me:I'm not, ok? I think I know my boobs and my body.
Her: DO you have a sense of humor any more????????????
Me: I have an excellent sense of humor.
Her: You know, I don't know if I am taking you wrong lately, but I am feeling disrespected. Although I am only your stepmother, I did help your dad provide and care for you so when I say I AM tired of getting my head bit off all of the time and being disrespected I'm saying it as a MOM and I generally do not let people continue to disrespect me and remain in my life so you may need to rethink how you are reacting to me and treating me because I don't like it. If I am wrong and you are not meaning to be hurtful then I apologize but to be honest I can't even talk to you without getting my head bit off or you getting defensive lately.
I got that last part tonight and was flabbergasted! She's always trying to cut me out of her life.
I said back to her: I can see how this conversation would come across like I was biting your head off, if you read it a certain way...but that's not how I meant it. I meant it in a slightly exasperated tone at the most. And I don't know what other times you're talking about where I bit your head off...I apologize. I don't hurt people on purpose.
Then I went to bed and cried my heart out again. She's the only person who does that to me. I don't know what's wrong with her. I don't understand. She's done terrible things to me and I've always forgiven her, and SHE'S the christian!
I just needed to vent, my goodness this about the longest post I've ever made. I'm just upset. I can't make her happy. I never could.
I almost didn't make it out of that situation. I eventually moved back with my step mom and dad and found a job at an Italian restaurant where the owners took my under their wing and my life finally turned back around and I met my husband. She kicked me out again after being home for eight months and did change her mind but I was having none of it. I moved in with the owners of the restaurant and then moved in with my husband (boyfriend at the time). After that things were going better between my step mom and me again.
A few months ago I voted in this poll on facebook, I was so not trying to start anything! I was just sharing my opinion on MY page. She disagreed with me and commented and debated with some people on my post. She got so mad and blocked me and didn't talk to me for a month. I was devastated, I cried my heart out. Then she just started talking to me again.
Well, I stopped by on Monday to see dad and her and the next day she sent me an email and asked if I was pregnant. That's an annoying question. I was annoyed, partly because we're sort of unofficially trying to have a baby, third month and nada. So I said
"NO, why would you ask that? Why would I not tell you?"
Her: Dad said your boobs were bigger and he bets you are pregnant. And I said, "What in the world?" and then I said, "If she were pregnant she would tell me." Then he said, "Bet she is and doesn't know it yet." So go get a kit and check it out so I can say HA to your dad. The things he notices.....weird guy. V
Me:I'm not, ok? I think I know my boobs and my body.
Her: DO you have a sense of humor any more????????????
Me: I have an excellent sense of humor.
Her: You know, I don't know if I am taking you wrong lately, but I am feeling disrespected. Although I am only your stepmother, I did help your dad provide and care for you so when I say I AM tired of getting my head bit off all of the time and being disrespected I'm saying it as a MOM and I generally do not let people continue to disrespect me and remain in my life so you may need to rethink how you are reacting to me and treating me because I don't like it. If I am wrong and you are not meaning to be hurtful then I apologize but to be honest I can't even talk to you without getting my head bit off or you getting defensive lately.
I got that last part tonight and was flabbergasted! She's always trying to cut me out of her life.
I said back to her: I can see how this conversation would come across like I was biting your head off, if you read it a certain way...but that's not how I meant it. I meant it in a slightly exasperated tone at the most. And I don't know what other times you're talking about where I bit your head off...I apologize. I don't hurt people on purpose.
Then I went to bed and cried my heart out again. She's the only person who does that to me. I don't know what's wrong with her. I don't understand. She's done terrible things to me and I've always forgiven her, and SHE'S the christian!
I just needed to vent, my goodness this about the longest post I've ever made. I'm just upset. I can't make her happy. I never could.