I just wanted to say I am sorry your cat and your family are facing such hard decisions. Living with an intact cat is very difficult for most people.
If she were my cat I would get a second opinion from an all cat clinic, just because I have seen how different opinions can be from vet to vet before.
If she were my cat I would get a second opinion from an all cat clinic, just because I have seen how different opinions can be from vet to vet before.