I wouldn't say that it's necessarily "noble." I love my step children (don't always like them, but then I don't always like my own children, either -- love is something entirely different), and they deserve no less than any other child just because their parents chose to divorce one another (or were forced to, in a manner of speaking).Originally Posted by cazlee
Thank you, from the perspective of a step child, for doing everything you can to treat all of them equally, and putting your own feelings aside for their sake. That's very noble and it takes a very big heart to do.
Kids shouldn't get wrapped up in the affairs of their parents. Parents who do that are just using their children for their own gain, IMO.