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I picked up an older tomcat off the streets. He came up to me, meowing up a storm, so I adopted him in my home. It was just us two. He is intact.
He hangs outside mostly and comes in to eat almost daily, rests inside every now and then. He use to be gone for about 3 days (a lot of females were around). He went missing for 3 weeks, and ever since... He hasn't been cuddly.
When I first got him, he slept with me when he was inside. He was extremely cuddly - insisted on being as close to me as possible when inside. He meowed all the time, he rubbed againgst me, and we had a lot of fun. Now, he won't lay with me. He picks other rooms. He doesn't rub againgst me much, only when hungry. If I sit down, he will crawl into my lap without coaxing and lounge but gets up and leaves quickly. Trying to cuddle on the bed is almost out of the question now.
I've never hit him or yelled (hell, never had too - he's one of those hidden gems). Ever since I picked up at the pound when he dissapeared for 3 weeks, he's been different. It's been over a month since then.
Changes: moved houses and adopted a 5 week old kitten.
Is there any way to my tomcat cuddly again? We have been companions for 6 months. I've done everything I can to make him feel at home.
He hangs outside mostly and comes in to eat almost daily, rests inside every now and then. He use to be gone for about 3 days (a lot of females were around). He went missing for 3 weeks, and ever since... He hasn't been cuddly.
When I first got him, he slept with me when he was inside. He was extremely cuddly - insisted on being as close to me as possible when inside. He meowed all the time, he rubbed againgst me, and we had a lot of fun. Now, he won't lay with me. He picks other rooms. He doesn't rub againgst me much, only when hungry. If I sit down, he will crawl into my lap without coaxing and lounge but gets up and leaves quickly. Trying to cuddle on the bed is almost out of the question now.
I've never hit him or yelled (hell, never had too - he's one of those hidden gems). Ever since I picked up at the pound when he dissapeared for 3 weeks, he's been different. It's been over a month since then.
Changes: moved houses and adopted a 5 week old kitten.
Is there any way to my tomcat cuddly again? We have been companions for 6 months. I've done everything I can to make him feel at home.