I'm so very sorry for the loss of your wonderful sister. I think you were indeed blessed to have her in your life, she sounds like an extraordinarily generous soul. Clearly, she touched so many lives in a positive way and she will be missed by very many people.The happy family life you have now can be considered a legacy from her in a way - she made it possible for you to live a good life and escape the bonds of your abusive childhood. I know it's going to be very hard for you mourning her loss; no matter how long you knew it was coming it doesn't soften the blow. I'm praying for strength for you.