Hello, All
Hoping for feedback. A few years ago I took in a young (8 month old) feral cat, Rosie. I brought her and her kittens into my home; once the kittens were of age, they were adopted by a friend. I kept Rosie as she was sweet & talkative, but very shy. I already knew no shelter here would take her. Luckily, she got on with my 16 year old boy, Henry, and they had two happy years before Henry passed of kidney disease.
Since then, Rosie has really bonded with me. I am her 'only human' though, as she is still shy & hides from people, even those she knows, like my friends. I've been thinking about getting Rosie a friend, as I do work & so she is alone for 8 hours a day. She's so sweet natured though, it's hard to tell if she minds it.
I volunteer for an animal rescue, and this summer helped to trap a small black cat, Griffin. His foster mom described him as playful and sweet; he even got along with her dog, which I took as a good sign. I recently took him in on a trial basis. I am keeping him in a separate room for now, and am letting he and Rose have supervised visits, for short periods. Generally they seem to be doing well - no hissing at all, barely a swat, but I have noticed Griffin has a tendency to get up high, and then pounce on, or chase Rosie.
I'll admit it makes me nervous. I don't want Rosie to be bullied, she is too sweet for that. I also don't want the intro of a new cat to change my relationship with Rose, as silly as that might sound. so - I've bought Feliway plug ins and am giving them lots of time to see how it goes. But at the moment I am wondering if I did the wrong thing, by bringing another cat in. Please, any thoughts or suggestions most welcome. I'll admit I am already feeling overwhelmed as I am also caring for my 82 year old mother who was recently diagnosed with cancer. So maybe the thinking is a little fuzzy. I'd be happy to talk this through with another cat owner. Thanks!
Hoping for feedback. A few years ago I took in a young (8 month old) feral cat, Rosie. I brought her and her kittens into my home; once the kittens were of age, they were adopted by a friend. I kept Rosie as she was sweet & talkative, but very shy. I already knew no shelter here would take her. Luckily, she got on with my 16 year old boy, Henry, and they had two happy years before Henry passed of kidney disease.
Since then, Rosie has really bonded with me. I am her 'only human' though, as she is still shy & hides from people, even those she knows, like my friends. I've been thinking about getting Rosie a friend, as I do work & so she is alone for 8 hours a day. She's so sweet natured though, it's hard to tell if she minds it.
I volunteer for an animal rescue, and this summer helped to trap a small black cat, Griffin. His foster mom described him as playful and sweet; he even got along with her dog, which I took as a good sign. I recently took him in on a trial basis. I am keeping him in a separate room for now, and am letting he and Rose have supervised visits, for short periods. Generally they seem to be doing well - no hissing at all, barely a swat, but I have noticed Griffin has a tendency to get up high, and then pounce on, or chase Rosie.
I'll admit it makes me nervous. I don't want Rosie to be bullied, she is too sweet for that. I also don't want the intro of a new cat to change my relationship with Rose, as silly as that might sound. so - I've bought Feliway plug ins and am giving them lots of time to see how it goes. But at the moment I am wondering if I did the wrong thing, by bringing another cat in. Please, any thoughts or suggestions most welcome. I'll admit I am already feeling overwhelmed as I am also caring for my 82 year old mother who was recently diagnosed with cancer. So maybe the thinking is a little fuzzy. I'd be happy to talk this through with another cat owner. Thanks!