As of March 1, 2015, we went from a 2 cat to a 3 cat household. Introductions and integration was going well, but is now going downhill due to recently started bullying behavior. We've tried to go very slow and follow the most popular tips - and it was working well until the last few weeks. I'd love your feedback/experiences.
A little bit of info:
A little bit of info:
- Existing cats are a 4 year old M & F domestic short hair
- They are not from the same litter, but brought home from the shelter together as kittens
- M (Noah), is dominate
- F (Sophie), can be shy and hesitant, but is not a "hide under the couch for days" kind of cat
- Noah and Sophie overall get along - we occasionally break up rough housing, but nothing bad (no hissing, blood, etc.)
- 3 litter boxes (2 in one room, 1 in the other). Cleaned daily and scrubbed/refilled monthly.
- 4 different water locations (3/4 away from food)
- 2 different food locations
- 1 large tower
- Smaller, but still elevated areas in other rooms for cats to escape
- 1 year old F (Elsie)
- Appears to be Burmese
- Sweet personality - she's cautious but is not afraid. Does appear to want dominance (not a mean cat, has never hissed, growled, etc), but has backed down. She appears to mostly want to play.
- Elsie lived in our second bedroom for over a month before any introductions beyond scent swapping began
- Hissing from the original cats was very minimal after the first couple of days Elsie was with us. Growling only happened on the first day
- Scent introductions and feedings on each side of the door is all that happened for the first month (we had a towel under the door crack to prevent paw fights)
- We then removed the towel and let them get used to Elsie's paw (associated it with toys and treats)
- We then cracked the door during feedings (used lots of tuna - even rubbed tuna on Elsie's nose for a positive scent association)
- We swapped blankets/scents and swapped cat locations for exploration
- Once all of the above was good (no hissing or noticeable body language issues), we put Elsie in her crate and fed the cats in the same room
- We then moved Elsie into a bigger playpen (she was zipped in, but could roam, letting Noah and Sophie get used to her movement) and fed the cats in the same room on each side of the playpen
- Noah was introduced to Elsie first (I admit that he appeared more comfortable than Sophie) outside of her pen and all was fine
- Elsie was introduced to Sophie in the main living area with wet food and tuna. No big issues...everyone ate. Sophie didn't want much to do with her, but acted well for having a new cat around.
- Once the above was fine, Elsie only stayed in her room when we were not around
- For about a month now, Elsie has been outside of her room all of the time except for night time
- Everything has been supplemented by Feliway plugins
- Lots of play - try to encourage all 3
- Elsie tried to be dominate at first with staring and no-claw swiping. Some of it was play, some of it wasn't. This was mostly directed to Noah. They are fine now and seem to have found their dynamic (co-dominance almost, but he has the final say when he chooses)
- At first, Sophie would mildly hiss if Elsie got too close. Elsie started respecting this and the hissing diminished.
- Everyone eats together and can be in the same room together, but Sophie is starting to bully.
- Sophie stares down Elsie and charges Elsie (not physical violence or fights)
- Sophie has begun litter box bullying through stalking
- Elsie very much backs down, but this seems to encourage Sophie further
- Noah is laid back and fine
- Elsie does not instigate
- We hiss/create a distracting noise if we catch Sophie charging
- We try to step between/break eye contact if Sophie is staring (attempting to redirect). This is only mildly successful as Sophie is intent on Elsie.
- When Sophie is not bullying, we are giving her extra attention and priority
- We are moving litter boxes to try to create a better escape route to diminish litter box stalking
- Reloading up Feliway (we went from 3 to 1 because we ran out of refills)
- As of this morning, Elsie is back in her room when we are not there to supervise