Thinking about getting another cat or kitten as a companion for my older cat

[corinne1964]

Hello,.......... I'm new to The Cat Site and I'm hoping someone can possibly help me with my situation.        My fella is around 10 years old - he's fixed and he's an indoor cat. Last year I had to get my other cat put down as he was very ill. Needless to say  - that day really SUCKED.  This is awful to say, but, I honestly don't think my other cat even knew he was gone. I will get to the point here,................. I just wonder if it would be a good idea to get Angus a little playmate. And if so,.......do I get a kitten or a cat that is closer to his age ?????  Also, being that Angus is a male, ( fixed )  do I get a male or female ???  I'm not rushing into this but I thought maybe someone might be able to help me kinda decide.  I  will say thank you in advance to everyone that gives a reply.    

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[margd]

I would adopt a cat closer to your cat's age since a kitten may be too rambunctious for a more sedate older guy. Plus older cats have a much harder time finding homes than kittens and you would be doing something quite wonderful saving a life. I'm not sure it matters what gender you select. The main thing is that you go through a complete introduction.

 

[NewYork1303]

I agree. A kitten would be too crazy and playful for most older cats. You don't have to get a cat that is the same age as your current cat but matching temperament would be good. If you have a calm cat, try to get a cat that is also calm. Adopting a cat that is old enough not to be playful and bugging the older cat all of the time (over 2 years) would be best.

 

[jcat]

At our local shelter, we're no longer allowed to adopt kittens out to households that have a senior cat that's lost its longtime companion. All too often the kitten is returned because it's just too much for the older cat. An adult cat is a much better choice.

You have to be honest with yourself - would the new cat be for Angus, or for you? If Angus isn't pining for companionship, it might be better to maintain the status quo.

 

[tammyp]

All answers are great.  For a bit more reading around the issue, have a look at this blog.  I always find it informative and spot-on.  Have selected a few relevant pages for you, but there's lots to browse:

http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/the-only-cat/7830

http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/dear-pammy-should-i-get-my-cat-a-kitten/816